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rinda
April 11th, 2004, 05:48 AM
Hi-

In trying to keep with the spirit of this site, I checked with Yi before trying to engage in the process of discussing the question at hand, and received 58 .5 >54. This leads me to think it's a good thing to participate, even though I am very new here, and that perhaps I need to be careful not to be attached to the response I give.

I'm thinking that 60 might indicate a need to think about your personal relationship boundaries. What are your goals for this potential relationship, where do you want it to go? How do you want to channel the energy that may be generated? How will you keep it from overwhelming you? A tiny shoot of grain and the sickle intimates the possibility that you may be feeling an urge to move too soon... (?) ...and that paying attention (without undue rigidity) to your own values and what they indicate is appropriate behavior at the beginning of a relationship will help keep you emotionally safe.

That the hexagram shifts to 54 makes me wonder if this (potential) relationship might have an inherent imbalance in power, and that it might be an unfortunate one if that is the case.

Anonymous, please remember that I'm no expert here, and that regardless of what I've written, the two of you get to choose what you will (or will not) do about this question.

Rinda