Can anyone help me gain insight into this situation? 53-31,14-11,8-44,19-35

[rho]

My last posting was about Hex53-Hex31,my next question was "How should I behave when me & ... next see each other? I recieved Hex14-Hex11, I'm pretty sure this was reminding me to stay true to myself, stay grounded, resist temptation and this will result in a peaceful & calm situation. Then i asked "Should I tell ... how I feel the next time we see each other?" I recieved Hex8-Hex44, which I think was saying 'No you should probably keep you mouth shut, because you'd end up spilling it all out after a few drinks and then you'd end up in bed! unless you speak with sincerity and not with ulterior motive' So I then asked whether I possess sublimity, constancy and perseverance?' and I got Hex19-Hex35.
My knowledge is still limited and any help deciphering these readings would be so helpful.
Sincerely
Rho xx

[jte]

"So I then asked whether I possess sublimity, constancy and perseverance?' and I got Hex19-Hex35."

That reading is a very positive and encouraging one: You're getting there, keep up the good work!

- Jeff

[rho]

I think with Hex8=Hex44 is reminding me of times past when I have manipulated situations to bring about a desired situation i.e. I've been hell-bent on getting a result, but in actual fact once I've gotten the result I realise there hasn't been any free-will involved, so I get fed up and dispondant and and start distancing myself. I realised this in my last relationship and I have no intention of doing that again. It's an ego based reaction and may well stem from me being a Scorpio with Aries rising. So thank you I Ching for drawing that to my attention again. Still trying to work the other Hexagrams out and where they fit in the bigger picture, everyone who has contributed answers has contributed to me increased awareness, thank you!