1.4 > 9 ??

[annietyme]

Suisse is still being a little distant and I am respecting his need for this but I asked the Yi when I would hear from him and that is what I received...

I am confused as to what The Creative & The taming of the small could mean as an answer...

Help?

Thanks,

Annie

[yly2pg1]

1 is about creative tension.
Changing line in 1 is about finding the right quality of the tension required for a situation. This perhaps explains the situation now - finding the "right tone and step", so as to say.

You have a role here - be yourself and tame your step and reactions. http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/I_Ching_community/clipart/blush.gif

[annietyme]

So I should just stand back and wait for him to contact me when he is ready? Or if I continue to do this he will contact me soon[er]?

Thanks,

Annie

[yly2pg1]

From the perspective of yin-yang balance, the attraction between you and your friend can be voiced down into the room for attraction. Coming too close, it repels. Too far apart, the attraction lose its validity and significant.

If and if only HE is your life partner, the attraction between you and him will always stay intact. It is just a matter of adjustment and fine-tuning between each other within a safe margin of space and room.

What kind of attraction/relationship between both of you will dictate the kind of interactions between you both. BTW, this can be a good question , what say you? http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/I_Ching_community/clipart/blush.gif

[annietyme]

Yly2pg1,

Wow, okay yeah that's a great question to ask. I always have a difficult time trying to form my Yi questions. I tend the follow the same format of "show me an image..." or something like that.

What Yi said just now was 26.1.3 > 4

what do you make of that?

Thanks so much [again],

Annie

[yly2pg1]

Chris, could you help to decode 26.1.3 with IDM?
This is a question with "structural" nature.

[annietyme]

What's IDM?

*scratches her head*

Thanks Chris if you could help, I am clueless!! LOL

and Thanks Yly2pg1 for everything.

Annie

[yly2pg1]

111001(26)
101000(36)- changing lines at 1,3
------
010001(4)

If you understand why you get 4, then probably you are willing to be more comfortable with 36 here.

26 generally suggests that there are things surrounds the relationship that need to be settled and smoothed out. That process alone calls for 26, some kind of accumulation so that both of you are able to smooth things out that come your way.

Your current situation requires 36, fire under the earth, a kind of situation where you are not desirable.
Exactly why?
Spend some time to find out.
There is something you may not aware of here.

[annietyme]

Yly2pg1,

Wow. I don't understand how 36 came from and I don't quite undersand what that is looking at it but I do thank you for all of that.

I guess I have to find out why I am not desirable. What exactly does that mean though? He no longer desires me? at all? just right now because we are sorting things out and taking this time out not communicating?

Thanks again,

Annie

[yly2pg1]

My opinion, 26.1.3>4 could mean something you have overlooked all this while, which could be traced to too much reliance on the other party?

Line 1 could be a warning to this.

Line 3 is could be about your capability and self-reliance.

In IDM, changing lines at 1 and 3 gives a "filter" of 36 - a learning process where you may not escape.

I think what is lacking in this relationship in the self-reliance so that each party could feel more secure, balance and harmony.

[annietyme]

That does sound right. I think he doesn't feel as if I can rely on him. As if I constantly distrust him and his actions or what actions my all too vivid imagination stirs up.

That is something I need to work on, my own self-reliance. But what can I do to work on this? and once I do that how can I prove to him that I can rely on him. In my heart of hearts I do know that, my mind wanders all too much and I need to figure out how to control it and not let it affect me emotionally.

Dammmmm that hit the nail on the head.

Thank you,

If you have any other advice or wisdom it is much much much appreciated and wanted!

What is IDM? I am interesting in seeing how that works.

Again, Thank you,

Annie

[rinda]

Annie,

Could you have got this backwards...?? self-reliance could allow both parties not to fear what the other might or might not do, increasing the level of trust, reduces fussing... ...and lack of self reliance is what the previous message was saying, rather than lack of reliance on the other, I think.

Rinda

[yly2pg1]

You can seek the runic wisdom (http://www.facade.com/runes/) for advice. For a start, pick "single" as the spread (and "stone" for the rune). That will help to sharpen your insight and understanding. Good luck.

[annietyme]

Rinda,

perhaps, but would that mean that lack self-reliance and fear what i might do? i think i have gotten confused now. or is it saying the he lacks self-reliance? that part wouldn't make much sense as he has always been very self-reliant in that sense of the word. myself not so much.

Annie

[annietyme]

Yly2pg1,

on hte runic wisdom, you want i should ask this same question under the free reading? What is the difference regarding the type of stones?

thanks for the link, i am always eager to learn more.

Annie

[annietyme]

Okay this is what I received:

A Single rune is used to gain a quick insight into what drives the situation, or to reduce it to the most concise summary possible. Stone Runes are most commonly used for questions about the natural world and things beyond human control.

The rune represents the critical factor in the issue at hand. Isa is the rune symbolizing Ice - cold, stagnant, frozen, and unchanging. This rune suggests heat removed not just from anger or conflict, but from passion as well. Paradoxically, Isa conveys images of slippery slopes and unsure footing, but also of circumstances that have crystallized and become utterly immutable. Remember that in the cold north, ice is not just THE challenge to be overcome, but the very nature of the environment. Be courageous, for you work against this element every day. Will you fight alone or with others against this, our common foe? Is there much worse than lack of change?

That doesn't sound good now does it?

[annietyme]

Okay well I am obsessed now. I just asked the stone single ruin what I can do to change this status and received:

The rune represents the critical factor in the issue at hand. Raido is the rune of riding, as in a cart or as cargo. It is seen here reversed, suggesting a disruption of travel or communication. Etiological analysis of this rune has also given it interpretations of advice or justice, and of being in a position of moral correctness. Reversed, there is an indication of the lack of solid council, or the holding of a position that is not morally sound.

What do you make of that? Does that mean I am not receiving the right council/advice?

Annie

[yly2pg1]

The use of I Ching can easily degrades into finding the easy way out. While the consultation process does point to the event and path of tomorrow, it is what we are doing now that dictate what is going to come tomorrow. Trying to take a short cut out will not help. It makes things worse. This is my experience.

Whether you are receiving the right advice with I Ching dependly a lot on how you treat I Ching because it reflects the deeper aspect of your inner self. After all who knows you better than you yourself?http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/I_Ching_community/clipart/blush.gif

[annietyme]

That is true. I guess I just don't understand all I am reading them just yet.

Thanks,

Annie