confusion on hexagram 20

[tabitha]

hello-- I am new to this forum, but I would appreciate any help on interpreting hexagram 20 as it applies to romantic relationships-- the most consistent and re-occuring hexagram I receive in a current relationship. Thanks for any help with interpretation.

[willowfox]

Hex 20 is about standing back and analyzing the relationship, see how you stand, see how they stand, then you will be able to judge where the relationship is headed. Is it headed for better times or the rocks, that is for you to judge on the evidence that you see. Receiving this hex could be a wake up call for you to examine what is going on, like is the relationship in a rut or something, do you need to call it a day and move on, these are things that you will discover when you stand back and look.

[jimnammack]

King Wen says about Hexagram 20, "Those below look toward him and are transformed. He affords them a view of the divine way of heaven, and the four seasons do not deviate from their rule. Thus the holy man uses the divine way to give instruction, and the whole world submits to him."

This is pretty big. It means that your influence on your boyfriend either is or will be pretty huge. He will be enamored of you, and it will be easy for you to influence him the way you wish. You will also find him to be very trustworthy. All this seems to be saying that you are going to have him wrapped around your little finger before too long.

Jim

[listener]

:confused:Huh?