Confession 18 -> 56

[unsubscribed_cm]

I asked the Yi to help me understand my feelings for a girl... I used to get emails from.

18.2.4 -> 56

I guess my feelings for her are actaually corrupt.
They are probably more easily described by the hexagram the Wanderer.
Which could also be called "The Dreamer" in this context - if you want to know the truth.

I take this as saying my feelings for her are: not true, WRONG, N.O.
Even though I've thought they were for so long.

I thought I loved her.
I guess I only love a dream.

What might you all say?

[willowfox]

It seems that you have dreams of the past and now regret not taking action at the time but basically it seems there is very little that you can do, so don't try. Just nostalgia. You were strangers and still are.

[unsubscribed_cm]

What about this question I asked earlier? (About the same girl)

I asked the yi to advise me on sending another email to correct the past.
(I sent a long melodroamatic heavy letter, cuz I haven't heard from her in so long)

and the Yi advised:

18.2.6 -> 15

[hexagon]

You are a sincere warrior who valiantly wants to woo and win the heart of a woman you love. But you are trying to fan the flames of a spark (on her part) that has long gone out. The letter was a forceful breath that put the spark out. The IC warned you to be humble, but instead, you wrote this heavy letter that turned her away. IC is now pointing to 56 - that you are wandering, floundering. perhaps even lost your way - in your attempts to hold onto something that is not there. I wish I could tell you otherwise. Learn the lesson. I've been there... and know it well.