Question abt 63.3 > 3

[rose]

Thank you for your words Trojan, they resonated with me. and yes i did see pple around are having 63.3..a bit of a coincidence..or not I wonder...

I used Stephen Karcher's interpretations. In changing line 3 of hex 63 he said something like 'don't listen to what others say to you. Your hearts will win in the end'. Hence my confusion.

My question was 'Should I let go'. Hex 63, Already Fording, seems to me that this process has already started. Then I got changing line 3 and then Hex 3, which seemed to me that our hearts will win in the end and a new beginning might await him and I.

Do you think I can interpret it this way? I dont know much about deep interpretation, but this is how it seems to me.

Cos the book is Stephen's interpretation based on his experiences, I am not sure what Yi is actually telling me. Hex 3 is it a new beginning with him and me or me with someone else?

[willowfox]

My question was 'Should I let go'?

The answer is yes, conquer your desires to win this guy, discipline your wayward emotions and have nothing to do with inferior/troublemaking people.

Hex 3 Is about a new beginning, a new era, a change in your life, so your desire for this man will change, it will become unimportant. Your period of chaos and confusion, this on/off relationship, will give way to a new start for you, a new birth of opportunities for love.

So, think about the situation carefully, weigh up all the factors involved, be sensible and practical, use your head not your heart and to put an end to your current conflict of the heart, then you will find success. You need to start afresh, a new love is out there and waiting for you.

[rose]

Thank you willowfox

[trojan]

Thank you for your words Trojan, they resonated with me. and yes i did see pple around are having 63.3..a bit of a coincidence..or not I wonder...

I used Stephen Karcher's interpretations. In changing line 3 of hex 63 he said something like 'don't listen to what others say to you. Your hearts will win in the end'. Hence my confusion.

My question was 'Should I let go'. Hex 63, Already Fording, seems to me that this process has already started. Then I got changing line 3 and then Hex 3, which seemed to me that our hearts will win in the end and a new beginning might await him and I.

Do you think I can interpret it this way? I dont know much about deep interpretation, but this is how it seems to me.

Cos the book is Stephen's interpretation based on his experiences, I am not sure what Yi is actually telling me. Hex 3 is it a new beginning with him and me or me with someone else?

You could interpret it the way you say, you have to go with your gut instinct, however reading what you said about the facts of the relationship coupled with the answer of 61.6 if you were to try and talk with him, gave me a strong impression letting go was the way forward. Also your actual question was about letting go.

Returning to what others said in the other thread think about your self esteem level at the moment. This person has no time to listen to what you say and you say the misunderstanding has come about through what friends have said. Hmm how close or caring is he to you if he lets this come between you ? I would like to think anyone who cared about me at all would at least listen to me over rumours or friends gossip etc. 61.6 very clearly advises you not to go and plead (which really is what you will be doing whatever you tell yourself) when he doesn't want to talk to you. It sounds like he definately wants to be seperate from you and you want to hang on, plead your case etc
You can't talk your way back into this mans heart ,it won't work and you'll probably feel even more crushed and upset if you try.

You asked 'what if i let go' and got 63.3 which is what you ask about here and fitting this into the whole picture I would say letting go will take a fair amount of self discipline on your part. Perhaps the 'demons' here are your own attitudes, perhaps you feel possessive, determined, angry, stubborn, unwilling to take no for an answer and so on - oh and of course very sad. 63.3 also talks about not employing the 'inferior', maybe you need some help in getting through this from worthy friends (helpers) . Hex 3 shows through this difficult ending you are able to make a new start.

Of course that is just my perception of your answers its not the final judgement on the question, you know the situation more than I. All I can give is my perception based on what you say of the facts and how the answers apply to that. :)