sunflower
November 23rd, 2007, 10:32 PM
Just a few weeks ago I was going to see the man I am interested in and asked the IC how I should behave with him when I saw him. The answer I got was very straight forward. # 8 line 4. " Here the relations with a man who is the center of union are well established. Then we may, and indeed we should, show our attachment openly. But we must remain constant and not allow ourselves to be led astray"
Well being somewhat new to the IC I must admit I was a little freaked out about showing my attachment openly thinking I might make a fool of myself.[ We aren't actually in a relationship yet]. So I didn't do anything of the sort and might even have acted a little less enthusiastic as I might have I guess. I think I let the advice of the IC frighten me because I didn't trust it and this may actually now have ruined things for good because now I am getting nothing but less than encouraging readings. [see my other post]. How can things be ruined so quickly when the IC was telling me that relations were so well established I should openly show attachment and yet within a matter of weeks things are kaput? :confused:
Well being somewhat new to the IC I must admit I was a little freaked out about showing my attachment openly thinking I might make a fool of myself.[ We aren't actually in a relationship yet]. So I didn't do anything of the sort and might even have acted a little less enthusiastic as I might have I guess. I think I let the advice of the IC frighten me because I didn't trust it and this may actually now have ruined things for good because now I am getting nothing but less than encouraging readings. [see my other post]. How can things be ruined so quickly when the IC was telling me that relations were so well established I should openly show attachment and yet within a matter of weeks things are kaput? :confused: