44 = the woman with a profound fear of marriage (and the man who tried to ask her to marry him)?

[val]

I've been having a private conversation with someone who is relatively new to the forum about 44 as the Yi's description of the man the universe likes for me. I went looking for a couple of posts to substantiate my statement in one of my posts in the "44 = the woman who stands in the way?" (http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/I_Ching_community/messages/92/5464.html?1132113529) thread:

<blockquote><font color="0000ff">Yes this is a man the universe says I'm destined for. The story is long, and most of it is all over this forum. 44 is what they say whenever I've asked the Yi to tell me something about him. Since the Yi wouldn't tell me NOT to marry someone the universe is telling I AM going to marry, I'm trying to find out what 44 means in this case.</font></blockquote>I went looking for and found the posts regarding the dream about confronting my fear of marriage to show this forum newcomer that the universe has not only pointed to him as a mate for me but has also spent a good deal of energy and time getting me ready for him in fact:

http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/I_Ching_community/messages/92/781.html#POST7636 (http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/I_Ching_community/messages/92/781.html#POST7636)
http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/I_Ching_community/messages/92/781.html#POST7647 (http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/I_Ching_community/messages/92/781.html#POST7647)

And in these posts, I found a very important clue as to what the Yi has been saying to ME all this time (and possibly to other women who have been getting 44 as well).

I'd love your thoughts.

Thanks.

Love,

Val

[val]

Btw, to the other newcomers to this forum (the oldtimers were here and witnessed it), I did indeed "44 to 18" (got to the source of my fear of marriage and then overcame it) in a post to Chris Lofting (who was immensely helpful) in the "50 to 8" thread (many moons ago). It was quite an experience... very cathartic and liberating.

Love,

Val