About a friend 54 to 2

[maremaria]

Hi,

I’m not sure if I have understand a reading I got. Its about a friend. I meet her yesterday, and I have a “gut” that something was wrong.

I asked Yi “what should I know about that relationship ? ” and got 54.1,2,4 to 2

I see 54 as compromise with the situation and be receptive/patient . She is expecting a baby in a couple of weeks and maybe is that’s why she was behaving like that .There are some worries about the health of her baby, so maybe this was the “problem”

I wonder if you see something more in that reading

Thanks,
Maria

[willowfox]

“what should I know about that relationship ? ” and got 54.1,2,4 to 2

It would seem that all is not right with the marriage as she seems to feel lonely and upset, angry with her husband due to her being pregnant, perhaps she wants to do things her way and he disagrees but she has set her course to go the way she whats and to heck with him. Alot to do with stress so nothing unusual.

[maremaria]

Hi Willowfox,

Thanks for your insight. I think my question was not posted clearly. I asked about the relationship between me and my friend. I felt a "distance" between us thats why I asked.
Sorry ......:blush:

Maria

[trojan]

Hi,

I’m not sure if I have understand a reading I got. Its about a friend. I meet her yesterday, and I have a “gut” that something was wrong.

I asked Yi “what should I know about that relationship ? ” and got 54.1,2,4 to 2

I see 54 as compromise with the situation and be receptive/patient . She is expecting a baby in a couple of weeks and maybe is that’s why she was behaving like that .There are some worries about the health of her baby, so maybe this was the “problem”

I wonder if you see something more in that reading

Thanks,
Maria

Hi I noticed 54.2 has come up for me a few times when I've had this mild feeling of something not being quite right with someone. It feels like you meet your friend but still feel alone, or you feel they are not really 'there' with you. I think it can mean you are like a widow here in that the person has other concerns that preoccupy them and can make them neglect you as if they had left you. So with the other lines I think its a pity but she is neglecting your friendship somewhat, most likley because you are not her priority at the moment (54.1) . I guess how you respond depends on how you feel about this - it may be from now on she isn't really the friend you want because she isn't giving you enough attention. Hex 2 makes me think theres stability in this relationship though, as if at least you will be there for her and be patient with her - whether thats reciprocated i don't know. 54.4 talks of not compromising but waiting for the correct type of union you want. Could be perhaps right now you just can't connect in a way thats good for you - perhaps in time after shes had the baby and settled down a bit you can resume the friendship on a more rewarding level.

[maremaria]

Hi Trojan,

Thank you for your contribution. I can recognize some things in your comments. Yes I felt neglected, but I also realized that I have “neglect “ her too. Seems that we both- in our personal life- are in a transitional stage and try to deal with it. That has affected the relationship. Seems that, the “distance” is something we both need.


Maria

[willowfox]

Hi Willowfox,

Thanks for your insight. I think my question was not posted clearly. I asked about the relationship between me and my friend. I felt a "distance" between us thats why I asked.


I was just answering that the distance between you was caused by her pregnancy and other related marital/stress problems, she is like in a world of her own at the moment, so take no notice.

[maremaria]

Ohh, Now I get it. Sorry :o

Maria