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maria22
February 15th, 2008, 10:04 PM
Well to be honest .Something is going really wrong with a guy...Well we are not talking right now...So I asked I ching IF he will ever talk to me again and I got hexagram51...Anyone knows what that means?
bradford
February 16th, 2008, 01:31 AM
Maybe something you did, or something he felt, shocked him,
or at least he had an unpleasant reaction. Maybe now he at least
believes he has learned from the experience, and is in no great
rush to repeat it. It looks like you have some recent past to overcome.
maria22
February 16th, 2008, 05:35 PM
So you think he is going to talk to me again...?Clear No or maybe its a yes?
dobro
February 16th, 2008, 07:17 PM
Brad's nailed one of the two most probable interpretations. Here's the other one: the Yi's advising you on how to deal with this big shock in your life. He's not talking to you. Big shock. Okay. Now, in a situation like this, the Yi says to hold on to your highest purpose, cuz in the end, the tension will be released and you'll be happy. So here's my question for you: in this situation, what's your highest purpose?
maria22
February 16th, 2008, 09:55 PM
Thank you for actualy asking me this...Cause I had lost this "purpose".I really don't know.Find love I'd say...Cause I really love this person...And I've told him I do...But he is just distand.He always been. And what I'd like from him is to let me in his life.I just wish he could talk to me again.Any advice?
dobro
February 16th, 2008, 10:47 PM
Thank you for actualy asking me this...Cause I had lost this "purpose".I really don't know.Find love I'd say...Cause I really love this person...And I've told him I do...But he is just distand.He always been. And what I'd like from him is to let me in his life.I just wish he could talk to me again.Any advice?


I've got two pieces of advice. 1: follow the Yi's advice and hang on to your highest purpose (love, in your case). 2: always, always, always remember you can't change somebody. It's really, really difficult to change yourself, even. But change somebody else? No, never. Don't even try. Just let him know how you feel about him and your relationship.
maria22
February 17th, 2008, 06:33 AM
I would never ask him to change...I like him just the way he is...Thank you so for the advice....You have no idea how much you helped.