Various Hexagrams

[pembs]

Hi All

For those who have read my previous threads you will know that I recently started divorce proceedings. BUT it doesn't feel right and I have done this mainly to prove a point (which I realise is the WRONG reason) so I have gone no further with the divorce. My husband and I are no longer in contact and live in different geographical locations but we did once have a wonderful relationship until everything fell apart.

I recently asked the I Ching
"How can I help him?"
Hex 36 - lines 1,2 and 6 changing to Hex 18

"Would X like to work on what has been spoiled?"
Hex 48 - lines 1 and 6 changing to Hex 9

"Will he work with me on repairing the damage to our relationship?"
Hex 18 - lines 2 and 3 changing to Hex 23

I initially took the readings for Hex 48 and Hex 18 as being quite positive in terms of rectifying the damage but I would appreciate your valued opinions!!

Thanks!
Claire

[willowfox]

"How can I help him?"
Hex 36 - lines 1,2 and 6 changing to Hex 18

You have some plan to do something but the time is not right so best stop trying for the moment but keep the thought alive as maybe oneday in the future you will be able to help him and repair the damage that has happened but not for a while yet.


"Would X like to work on what has been spoiled?"
Hex 48 - lines 1 and 6 changing to Hex 9

Not now but later, as your first answer suggested, it is going to take a while.

"Will he work with me on repairing the damage to our relationship?"
Hex 18 - lines 2 and 3 changing to Hex 23

When the time is right, then gentle action is required to repair the damaged relationship.

[pembs]

Thanks Willowfox - always good to get your comments.

The response to Hex 48 was pretty much what I suspected - not now but later on. Same with Hex 18 but I was a bit unsure with Hex 36 as I wasn't sure whether it referred to me or him.

Thanks again,
Claire

[willowfox]

but I was a bit unsure with Hex 36 as I wasn't sure whether it referred to me or him.



Hex 36 was referring to you.

[pembs]

Thanks again!
Best Wishes
Claire

[meng]

Just a thought. Both 18 and 48 require some digging and stirring up. Need to get to the bottom of certain things. But for the time being, it looks to me as though the time isn't ready just yet. However, the outlook appears to have potential.

Not really different from what Wf has already said.

[pembs]

Thanks Meng.

This is a VERY frustrating one - been dragging on for quite some time (almost a year) -unfortunately I was the main cause of the initial problems. My husband is a really great man but has 'gone off the rails' since we split up and we are no longer in contact. In fact, he refuses to communicate. I filed for divorce last October just as a 'shock' tactic and hope that it would bring him to his senses but it has actually had the adverse effect and we are no longer in communication.

I am too proud to contact him as I know he would not listen anyway as he has closed his mind off "for his own self preservation" as he puts it. So - I just have to wait if he comes to his senses and approaches ME which is probably a LONG way off!!

Thanks again for taking the time to add your comments!

Best Wishes
Claire