moving past disharmony into what's best for me

[tabitha]

Hello-

I asked the i ching a question- My boyfriend and I are moving into friendship
I looked forward to seeing him this eve and it didnt happen- I was very hurt ( he chose to work, I cancelled plans to see him.)
I asked questions like- I am changing my relationship with this person and hurt,
what do I do, etc- I received answers like 6 or 38-
So I rephrased and asked- how do I move past disharmony with him into what's best for me and received 11-4-- that sounds better- but would love some insight into how to make that happen, so if anyone has any that would be great.

[willowfox]

So I rephrased and asked- how do I move past disharmony with him into what's best for me and received 11-4-- that sounds better- but would love some insight into how to make that happen, so if anyone has any that would be great.

Line 11.4 is about cooperating with him and then all will be well but to do that you must personally make an effort in this relationship in order for it to succeed. The relationship is about cooperation, tolerance and understanding, things that are very easy to learn.