11.1.2. to 15 and 15 many times

[galah]

I have been getting 15 as the second hex many many times over the past few weeks. Surely it is trying to tell me something important!

My question was how to handle the situation with X?

I asked him about the future of our relationship and I got a wishy washy answer so I told him I was taking time to reevaluate things.

11.1.2 to 15

11.1 get out and join other people

11.2 Find a way to live in harmony

15 I'm not sure about what 15 is saying here.

:bows:

[willowfox]

My question was how to handle the situation with X?

11.1.2 to 15

Well, it suggests that you are going to have to not only be determined but you must put some effort into the problem yourself, you are going to need to be very tolerant with X, you will need to show him that he does indeed have responsibilities in the relationship, it seems like it is going to be quite a difficult task so you are going to need to be very firm if you want to succeed.

Hex 15 requires that you just be your old sweet self but be realistic and again be tolerant, so don't get angry or emotional, just keep to the practical side of things.

[bricogirl]

Hi Galah,

Kim here - new to the Yi, but not to life. If you keep getting 15, there must be a reason. I'm just starting to see that interacting with the Yi is a conversation, not an interview. When we engage in conversations with people, there can be different underlying themes that we are more or less aware of. These themes are perhaps more important than the actual words themselves. So . . . I think you should take a good look at 15.

I find 15 to be a wonderful energy from my limited reading. All about humbling which may at first sound negative, but if you keep going with humble, you get to grateful and that is a very good place to start any endeavour!

Good luck with that relationship!

Kim

[galah]

Thank you both.

Looks like I'm going to have to try to be firm without lecturing.

[trojan]

I don't see anything at all about being firm ? 15 indicates you need to see the relationship exactly as it is without fantasy embellishments or idealistic thinking about it. Look at the facts of it so to speak.

11.1 as far as I'm concerned often indicates people have connections that run over or beyond just the boundaries of this specific relationship - maybe part of a group of friends or work colleagues. Theres something about this answer that makes me think theres a certain amount of convenience or practicality in it, maybe its the 15 which is nothing if not useful at meeting actual needs. 11.2 is a line people disagree on i think - some see as a bleak kind ofline where one must seperate from usual associates to get a perspective on things, which is what you are doing I guess

So in answer to your question of how to handle the relationship I think foremostly 15 tells you to be realistic and deal with that reality.

[willowfox]

I see a lot about being firm but tolerant, a great deal of determination and patience are going to be needed in order to deal with the reality of her situation.