manitoba33
December 28th, 2005, 05:55 AM
Hi,
I recently made a huge 'boo-boo' with regards to a man I've been getting to know on a very intimate level, very quickly. We met in person, had an instant connection over two days and the following month and a half we've been emailing constantly pouring our hearts and souls out to each other...It's been very powerful. Suffice it to say he lives one continent and ocean away and has decided quite suddenly that he wants to come visit me (after knowing me for 6 weeks).
Perhaps it's the self-sabotageur in me, but I did something (I won't give the details) that would have really served to burst the bubble on our innocent relations....though I meant no harm, I can understand why he would feel a sudden breach of trust, or at least the bubble was burst on his fantasy, 'idealism' of me...
That being said, I asked the ICHing to what extent I was responsible for our distance and what I could do to heal and reverse the damage...
39 changing lines 2.4.6. to 44
Any advice as to how to handle with this in the immediate moment? He is supposed to be coming to visit me next Tuesday, and I don't know what I need to be doing at this time to facilitate what is supposed to be happening (whether it's him coming to my country or going away)
Please help! Very confused
Thank you!
love!
M
I recently made a huge 'boo-boo' with regards to a man I've been getting to know on a very intimate level, very quickly. We met in person, had an instant connection over two days and the following month and a half we've been emailing constantly pouring our hearts and souls out to each other...It's been very powerful. Suffice it to say he lives one continent and ocean away and has decided quite suddenly that he wants to come visit me (after knowing me for 6 weeks).
Perhaps it's the self-sabotageur in me, but I did something (I won't give the details) that would have really served to burst the bubble on our innocent relations....though I meant no harm, I can understand why he would feel a sudden breach of trust, or at least the bubble was burst on his fantasy, 'idealism' of me...
That being said, I asked the ICHing to what extent I was responsible for our distance and what I could do to heal and reverse the damage...
39 changing lines 2.4.6. to 44
Any advice as to how to handle with this in the immediate moment? He is supposed to be coming to visit me next Tuesday, and I don't know what I need to be doing at this time to facilitate what is supposed to be happening (whether it's him coming to my country or going away)
Please help! Very confused
Thank you!
love!
M