Advice on new acquaintance: 44.1.3.4.6 and 60

[elizabeth]

This only slightly relates to my other thread so I thought to separate it, as it is a different question.

I recently met someone who awakened more than just feelings in me but several personal realizations. I have doubted from the outset that this person and I have any future together based on various factors I won't get into here, but I am curious why he appeared in my life and if I am seeing him for what he really is. I asked the Yi two questions:

1) What should I be aware of regarding this man?
44.1.3.4.6 and Hex 60 Limitation.

Given that 44 -- with all of its wide ranging interpretations, I did read the archives on this Hex -- can be negative or be seen as a warning, I then asked:

2) What does he want from me?
Hex. 1. Lines 2 and 6; Hex. 60 Limitation

I note the theme of limitation in both answers. And the flashing red lights with four changing lines in hex44. As I understand it, the first reading means (to quote Hillary :) )
"something important arriving, needs a special kind of attention."

I found online that Hex 44 can mean ruin, or something life giving. "Everyone needs challenges, to awaken the senses, in order to feel fully alive. And who knows what may manifest from it? What 44 represents is that which is powerfully attractive to the ego. It can be a person, an event or something you have unwittingly put into train, which takes off out of control and far beyond your plan."
That perfectly describes how this person is, what he is, in my life. Kind of a flame but I'm not sure if I am supposed to stay away, and if so, how far away.

Line1: you need to constantly be on guard.
Line3: If you are careful, you wont suffer.
Line4: ??
Line 6: be careful...

Hex 60, I take just as limitation.

As for Hex. 1's changing lines, I understand them to mean:
line 2- your light is seen and you can move on to create with more support and acclaim.
and line 6- but dont go too far.
(But i asked what HE wants from me?)

If anyone has insights, I would be most grateful.
-e.

[elizabeth]

Anyone?

[dobro]

What should I be aware of regarding this man?
44.1.3.4.6 and Hex 60 Limitation.

44 is about people or situations, contact with which has an insinuating effect on you, but with whom you should not unite, but keep a discrete distance. That seems pretty straightforward in the case of the man you're enquiring about. He's not for you, in other words. Hex 60 is about limitation, like you said, but it's got an associated meaning of regular time periods built in. It's not saying prohibit the thing, it's saying to exercise a regular limitation on it. In the case of the guy, it means to limit contact with him and interaction with him; don't avoid him, but limit the time you spend with him.

[willowfox]

The theme of your first answer is to keep your distance from this man and limit your exposure to him.

The theme of your second answer suggest a controlling factor, he would like to control you.

[jesed]

I did read the archives on this Hex -- can be negative or be seen as a warning, I then asked:

2) What does he want from me?

Hi elizabeth

I hope no to be rude, but helpful. I dare to ask
Why do you assume that the warning is about what he may want from you?

I would dare to suggest you a deep self examination about your emotional and sentimental life

If this comment could offend you, I do apologize

Best

[elizabeth]

Thanks Dobro, WIllowfox and Jesed.

Jesed, to your question, I was trying to define what the dynamic is between us...and given that I am a visitor in his country, typically men here tend to "want" something from foreign women. So I was asking the Yi what he wants... yes, maybe it was presumptuous of me. I was merely trying to gain insight into WHY he appeared in my life, what his role is (Maybe that is how i should have phrased the question???)

(p.s. it's not rude at all!) :-)

[jesed]

Hi Elizabeth
Then, I would suggest you to ask wich sign describes the dynamic of the relation. Normally, I would suggest a "diagnosis of the relation beyween X and me"

Best