43 unchanging regarding how he feels about me....

[fatequeen]

I asked how a guy I have been chatting with online is feeling about me after these exchanges. I've never quite understood 43 well. Any ideas?

Me: That last pic of you is beautiful BTW.. sorry for the inconvenient second thought....

Him: Thank you for compliment...but "inconvenient"?

Me: Inconvenient... because I bombarded you with numerous emails....

Him: Oh...I thought it was because you might have been aroused at work or
something.

Me: I believe the word I used was beautiful. Not typically the word I use to describe something I find arousing... although, I do find the hair around your navel a turn on.
There.. you finally got one out of me! God you are tenacious! Via a compliment even!

Him: I wouldn't say "tenacious"...just frequently flip or glib. I was referring not to "beautiful" but "inconvenient", anyway. You sure that's hair?

Me: Yes I know you were referring to "inconvenient". I was trying to make a point. however, and using "beautiful" as my reference. Not hair?? Well, were you maybe wearing a sweater and eating honey just before that pic was taken? Do you currently see hair around your navel area when you look down?

[zander]

When I look at the hexagram it reminds me of how a cat plays with a mouse. 43 is about being resolute, but from reading your dialogue...it doesn't sound like anyone is firm about what it is that they want from the other, I mean, on a genuine level. It just sounds like one huge mind game, do take care FateQueen.

[meng]

43 is kinda like: show yourself for who you are. But in doing so, it doesn't help to be competitive.

Btw, I made an embarrassing typo in the other thread, which I've corrected.

[willowfox]

43 unchanging regarding how he feels about me....

I think that he finds you quite fascinating, you inspire him, despite the strange game that you are playing.

[fatequeen]

"Btw, I made an embarrassing typo in the other thread, which I've corrected."

Never caught the typo... but would love to hear what it was. I could use a good laugh. :)

He still hasn't responded. I have a feeling he didn't find my joke very funny. Think it was a stupid/bad joke? ("Not hair?? Well, were you maybe wearing a sweater and eating honey just before that pic was taken? Do you currently see hair around your navel area when you look down?") I always seem to say stupid, stupid things and even things I don't even necessarily mean when I'm talking to him!!!!

[mousse]

Hello Fatequeen

I read your post and I'm curious to know if you'd have more feed-back about hex.43 ? Yesterday, I asked a similar question to the IC (how does he feel about me romantically? ) and I receive Hex.43 unchanging.

I'm a bit lost. I thnk hex.43 refers to him. So I'd say he's about to do something, resolve things . Not easy eh?

Bye,

Mousse

[asci_blue]

Cute banter, totally digging it here. I use a similar style.

Depending on how one reads the text to go with resolution, it could be he's getting ready to resolve the situation. It could also be he's resolved with himself as to what to do with you.

[mousse]

Hello asci,

Thanks for your comment. Well I think resolution is good either way. But knowing what his resolution, what he's going to do about us would be nice.

I guess the next step would be to ask what is his position in this relationship? I might get a clue.

Thanks again. :bows:

Mousse