relationship clarification

[tabitha]

Hello-

I asked the iching recently- I had a relationship recently that didnt go anywhere, I sort of blamed myself-- I asked what can I make of this and received 44-

I have received this before in regards to this relationship- I feel like I am to blame, for being overly aggressive maybe, as I never know what to make of that hexagram.

So I asked, is there a way to look at this differently so that I can feel more positive about it- and received 56- 31- I dont know but I think maybe this says that I was traveling through- just briefly though-

Can anyone help with interpretation? thanks

[willowfox]

Hex 44 is about a man and a woman who are clearly not compatible so don't feel bad about a relationship that was doomed from the start.

[tabitha]

Thank you!