22 Unchanging

[steve]

I have been recently staying with a friend and getting back on my feet.
The other night we had an argument which i wont go into details
he had a couple of drinks tonight and said that he wants me move out but when i spoke to him today he was talking nothing like that

I really want to move myself anyway but i prob need another month as i have some good things happening financially
I really dont need this at the moment

I asked if i will be able to work things out with him and be able to stick to my plans

I recieved 22 unchanging it looks ok would love some insight its fairly important.

Steve

[steve]

I asked also will everything be ok

I recieved 52.1> 22 which was interesting any insight again would be nice

Steve

[willowfox]

Hex 22 suggests that if you act with tact, be on your best behaviour, talk to him nicely and try your best to bring him around, then it looks very good.


Hex 52.1 > 22 If you think carefully about what needs to be done in your situation and then proceed as described above, then all looks well.

[steve]

Thankyou ,,i hope all is well

Steve

[dobro]

Yeah, what Willowfox said. 22's about beautifying the situation, so how can you beautify the situation you're in, Steve? Physically it would be stuff like buying flowers for the place or cooking the guy some dinners. Emotionally, it would mean being as positive and pleasant and cheerful as possible with him - no arguments, no criticisms, no recriminations.

The 52.1>22 thing emphasizes the importance of 22 in all of this, and adds that going nowhere for the time being, doing nothing, is a good way to proceed. It looks like it's okay to stay there for a bit longer. If you have more problems with the guy, show him this thread. You can blame everything on us lol.

[trojan]

Yeah, what Willowfox said. 22's about beautifying the situation, so how can you beautify the situation you're in, Steve? Physically it would be stuff like buying flowers for the place or cooking the guy some dinners. Emotionally, it would mean being as positive and pleasant and cheerful as possible with him - no arguments, no criticisms, no recriminations.

The 52.1>22 thing emphasizes the importance of 22 in all of this, and adds that going nowhere for the time being, doing nothing, is a good way to proceed. It looks like it's okay to stay there for a bit longer. If you have more problems with the guy, show him this thread. You can blame everything on us lol.

Er might he get the wrong idea though :rofl: I mean he might think Steves romancing him or something.

Seriously though yes agreed, make yourself agreeable Steve. Not that agreeable, but you know cleaning up and being pleasant and considerate and all that he wants in a good lodger/room mate. That way i think theres a chance theres no need to go anywhere for a while like Dobro said.

Also apart from all that 22 can indicate superficiality of intent (maybe) so when he said he wanted you to move maybe it was just a gesture, not really meant .

[rosada]

22. suggests a lovely illusion, so even though things could continue to go well for the time being I think you should assume this arrangement may not last too much longer and you should continue to anticipate that you will move before too long.

[dobro]

Physically it would be stuff like buying flowers for the place or cooking the guy some dinners.Er might he get the wrong idea though :rofl: I mean he might think Steves romancing him or something.

Sure. Might buy him some time though lol.

[steve]

Yes i spoke with him today
I think everything will be ok for the time being and every single one of you were right and you all had similar out comes but still slightly varied
I was planning in moving in mid July and it looks like financially it will suit him better also
I will be low key, yea i think rosada is right i think it will be ok for now but i better start making plans
(which i was anyway)
But if i had to leave earlier it would set me back at least 3 months

Thanks people very accurate replys

Steve