Roamtic involvement?62,3,4>2

[kiri]

what does 62,3,4>2 say about a romantic involvement between 2 people? Was there a hint of romance? I asked if X was involved with Y, so is the exagram saying that X is on guard from Y, or something else?

thanks

[willowfox]

It suggests that there is something going on between them.

[kiri]

Thank you willowfox. Do you know what nature is it? It sounds a bit weird, and dangerous.

Nine in the third place means:
If one is not extremely careful,
Somebody may come up from behind and strike him.
Misfortune.

Nine in the fourth place means:
No blame. He meets him without passing by.
Going brings danger. One must be on guard.
Do not act. Be constantly persevering.

Why be on guard, and not act? and why be careful? Is it a secret liaison, or some shady stuff that is ot romantic? Thanks for any interpretation.

[willowfox]

It suggests something that needs to be hidden otherwise it could cause him trouble of some sort. Somebody will be displeased.

[kiri]

does it speak of someone being guilty; is it a different issue other than romantic?
because i know what the oracle is talking about but i am not sure of the details.

[willowfox]

I suppose if you have something to hide and worry about someone slapping you around the ear then you are probably guilty.