hbhind
December 2nd, 2008, 09:26 PM
advice about a relationship-
him and I are from different countries we talk erractically planning to meet in Feb for passionate reunion- I don't want to invest anything in the relationship at this point cause it's long distance, but some times I'd like to talk to him more but don't want to seem to intense-so I don't call him- when I feel like i want to talk to him, I don't call him but I throw some coins instead: this week I asked
"what actions can I expect from him in regard to the weeks leading up to our rendezvous?"
I got #44 Liason/Temptation with 3 and 6 lines changing to #47 oppression
#44 I get - liason pretty straightforward here the encounter is on but must be free of ulterior motives
with 3rd line - be mindful of danger and it won't affect you??
with 6th line - it's just physical? or is he so withdrawn it doesn't really matter to him??
is this reunion fraught with danger or are the feelings that may be awaken somehow dangerous??
When I got the change to #47 I went- eeeeK Oppression..who wants that? that sounds awful??- but the more I read about this hexagram the more it is about hope and strength in the face of adversity. I just don't know how to interpret it in terms of my question re: his actions.
Honestly I dont really know what to expect from our reunion and I want to keep it simple + I'm terrified on how deep my feelings may be but I won't know until I see him face to face. I just wanted to get some perspective I guess??
him and I are from different countries we talk erractically planning to meet in Feb for passionate reunion- I don't want to invest anything in the relationship at this point cause it's long distance, but some times I'd like to talk to him more but don't want to seem to intense-so I don't call him- when I feel like i want to talk to him, I don't call him but I throw some coins instead: this week I asked
"what actions can I expect from him in regard to the weeks leading up to our rendezvous?"
I got #44 Liason/Temptation with 3 and 6 lines changing to #47 oppression
#44 I get - liason pretty straightforward here the encounter is on but must be free of ulterior motives
with 3rd line - be mindful of danger and it won't affect you??
with 6th line - it's just physical? or is he so withdrawn it doesn't really matter to him??
is this reunion fraught with danger or are the feelings that may be awaken somehow dangerous??
When I got the change to #47 I went- eeeeK Oppression..who wants that? that sounds awful??- but the more I read about this hexagram the more it is about hope and strength in the face of adversity. I just don't know how to interpret it in terms of my question re: his actions.
Honestly I dont really know what to expect from our reunion and I want to keep it simple + I'm terrified on how deep my feelings may be but I won't know until I see him face to face. I just wanted to get some perspective I guess??