Relationship changes

[pakua]

Hi everybody,

Sirix had a thread recently where the hexes about a particular relationship sudddenly were quite positive, which was surprising because they previously were not.

I was wondering about this too. Obviously everything changes, relationship dynamics included, so if you ask about a certain relationship in January, you might well get a different answer when you ask again in July.

So what I'm having trouble with is, is there a way of getting the "true" meaning of the relationship, or is it just, well this is the meaning at the moment, based on the dynamics and my attitude at this moment.

Any ideas welcome...

[jesed]

Hi Pakua

Is there something like "the true meaning of the relationship"?

Best wishes

[pakua]

H Jesed,

I had the experience of asking about a particular person 6 months ago, and the answer I got was this is not good for me to pursue, the person would not be good for me. I asked again recently, and the answer is much more postive now.

So what happened? Did the person change, I don't think I changed, the circumstances didn't change. Why was it not good before, but now it's ok.

Does Yi address the nature of the person in its answer, or just show the current dynamics?

[dobro]

Pakua, the Yi tells you what you need to know. Or it presents you with something that you can usefully interact with in a way that will either increase your understanding and appreciation of the situation, or help you deal with it more skillfully, or both. So depending on who's asking the question, what the question is, what the situation is, and what that person needs to know, the Yi might direct your attention to what's going on just at this moment (that's really common) or might present you with a longer timeframe (I think this happens only when the querent's ready for it). The Yi changes according to circumstances, in other words. Clever old Yi, yes?

[jerryd]

Well said Dobro....adding to this I will put in my 1/2 cents....
A relationship may consists of people or things; person to person or person to a thing....Yi can speak to the questioner(you)in reference to the outside person(of the relationship) only through (your) own knowledge and desire. This presupposes you know the other person well enough to know their motive, or desire,in this relationship!

I hope this is not as unclear as i think it may read.

[pakua]

Yes Dobro, clever Yi, not so clever me - looks like my questions will need to become smarter!