Dating and relationship questions

[threshold]

I asked as to wether going to bars and nightclubs would be a good way to meet people I like.
I got 41 L5,6 and rel Hex 60.
I interpereted this as encouraging me. Any comments.

Previously, I have asked the I ching as to the best attitude to take with regard to relationship and the opp. sex. I get things like waiting, being docile as a mare, retreat. Which I interpret as to mean to go easy and hold back on the situation for a time. I asked I ching to confirm whether correct or not
I got15, 3,4, and rel 16.
Is this a confirmation I am correct?

[dobro]

Yeah, it doesn't get much better than that. However, there's a limting factor: Hex 60 is the relating hexagram, right? And what's Hex 60 about? Limits, especially in the form of measure, periodicity. Which suggests to me that although nightlife is a good way for you to connect with 'people you like', you shouldn't do it all the time, every night, lots and lots. You should do it regularly, with measure and proportion.

[pagan]

I can see 60 in this situation as defining what you want. Often when I get hex 60, I take it as a need to set goals and then create the structure or plan to bring those goals to fruition. If you know what you are looking for in terms of meeting the opposite sex, and have set limits on what kind of person and what kind of interaction that you would like, then you can avoid some pitfalls in advance.
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