watching...my mistakes!!! 6.2.3.6-31

[movablue]

hello !

an attempt to find a new understanding about how i function in love relationships (obviously not very well and not in my advantage ); i'm trying to get the best from this lonely period of time

i asked the I Ching: what should i understand about me in order to become possible for me a long lasting relationship with a man?


the I ching answers me : 6.2.3.6-31
it seems i'm a trouble-maker; the truth is i'm not at all fond of quarrels or contention (i hate them in intimate relations)but i don't know how i attract them all the time (that's my conclusion in the end, decided to get rid of my projections onto my partners ; these supposed projections are all about jealousy, lack of affection or attention, unreliability...)


that's my feeling about this reading, but that's not a serious interpretation ; it might tell something more

what do you think? how do you see this answer, what does it say to me?
need your help!!!

[mary f]

I see a suggestion to change, renew, widen some patterns to be able to achieve your own growth. But when searching points for improvement, eventually revising rigidity, modesty, you’d better always to consider that the wisest thing to do is search harmony because this is what is going to give you clarity to see how to go ahead in peace. This tranquil and quiet period shall bring softness to you. I really don’t see you as a trouble-maker, but somebody who is in an internal search for self-knowledgement and maturity. Your intuition is reawakening. That is very good and what will really work for you.
Take care.

[movablue]

Thanks mary f!that's encouraging!
i see you have grasped the moment message of the answer; i was orientated to find out some pattern of behavior ,to get more awareness about my 'schemas' and this hex. 6 seemed to speak to me about the late and 'necessary' emotional climate of every relationship i had been obliged to break off..

searching harmony i really do, but the results are not valuable from my current point of view...
maybe another question will give me a clue about how searching harmony...could meet the other