One question...

[thescreamer]

Hello,i'm new to these forums. I have been studying i-ching since last year thanks to the Jung's interpretation of it.
I have always payed a great respect to i-ching and used it only with umility and for important matters. It NEVER failed...
In these days i have a question that literally corrodes me regarding a very passionate affair i have got. I fear that it's flame is slowly whitering away. I did two i-ching readings,distanced by a couple of days.

The first reading gave me a 51 turning to 8. The second one, which was done yesterday, gave me a 47 turning to 51. In this last reading my question was if i interpreted the first reading correctly,if i am doing right and how that's is gonna turn out.
I am very impressed,nearly frigthened,about the clarity and coherency of these two readings.The last one in particular struck me very deeply.
I have read them as a "take your time, explore your inner questions and solve them. Rushing would only destroy all the good work done before".

What do you guys think about it? Thanks a lot.
If you need more detailed info,feel free to ask.Goodbye.

[willowfox]

Did you have a specific question in mind?

[thescreamer]

I'd like to know how you would see the situation and how you would read these two i-ching results. I am very worried about losing it all and not being able to do a thing.

[willowfox]

Hex 51.1,4,5 > 8


This answer shows no loss, you just have to cling to this man if you fear that you will lose him.

[thescreamer]

Ehm actually i'm a man :D .Actually i'm not feeling loss but distance,great distance and emptiness. I don't like that feeling and i am a bit confused.
And what about the second reading? Thanks :)

[willowfox]

Ehm actually i'm a man :D


Well, just man to woman and no harm done.

[thescreamer]

Hi i've got news over here. The situations in these days isn't rash and hostile like at the beginning of this mess, but have reached some sort of stall, a cold but soft distance.
So i did another reading questioning the i-ching about the stall and i obtained hexagram 12, no trasforming.
What is your idea regarding this?

[willowfox]

Hex 12 is exactly that, stagnation, where no one is moving, everyone is just standing around.

[thescreamer]

Hex 12 is exactly that, stagnation, where no one is moving, everyone is just standing around.

Well yes i could easily figure that. ;) Is there anything else,in your opinion? It seems too semplicistic to me.. :)