He asked me...

[PaleSelene]

The guy from my last post invited me today to have dinner and there he started a bizarre conversation. He said you should get a boyfriend in the town where you live. After some time he said¨"do you know what I want? I want to have a honeymoon with you" Just like that. A honeymoon nothing else but that. I feel embarrased, hurt, dissappointed and angry, very angry. I asked the IC what to do about this and got 27.5 changing to 42.

[willowfox]

Please look at my previous answer again, it sums everything up nicely as I tried to discretely warn you.

Line 27.5 suggests that this man is beyond your capability to deal with, so don't take any more chances with him.

[PaleSelene]

You are right Willowfox, you did. I hate him because I never gave him the opportunity to disrespect me. I still wonder why he did that to me. I will never accept an invitation coming from him again.
Thanks for your help my guardian angel.

[PaleSelene]

Still I have a problem to solve. As my best friend is the sister of this man and I am spending some time at her house, because she invited me. (I am far from home doing some preps for a very important event coming on August the 13th) I still have to deal with him as he said will call today to go out with me again!...I asked the IC how to deal with this and got 59 no changing lines.

[PaleSelene]

From http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/I_Ching_community/e-answers51.html#hr
™Hexagram of the Month: 59, Dispersing ˜

"The old character for 'Dispersing' shows flowing water, and a man at the mouth of a cave, looking around with a stick in his hands. He seems to me to be trying to get the measure of a newly flooded landscape, though he might also be holding a knife..." Yes!! So far, I love this part! ...Lol

[heylise]

Hex. 59 has a lot to do with confusion. So "how to deal with it" means how to act when you are really confused: try not to panic and not to cling to rules of how things 'should' be done, but "enter the temple", give it in the hands of your inner wisdom (or whatever you approach when you look for wisdom: God, grandparent, good friend). It will give you a good trust in yourself, and that is the best defense against anyone who tries to pull you down in any way.

[PaleSelene]

Hex. 59 has a lot to do with confusion. So "how to deal with it" means how to act when you are really confused: try not to panic and not to cling to rules of how things 'should' be done, but "enter the temple", give it in the hands of your inner wisdom (or whatever you approach when you look for wisdom: God, grandparent, good friend). It will give you a good trust in yourself, and that is the best defense against anyone who tries to pull you down in any way.

Hi Heylise! Thanks you so much for your insight! Yes, sometimes one feels lost in anger and etc., But you are right I will give it in the hands of God.
Thanks a lot again!