jwrig04
August 10th, 2009, 12:58 PM
I have just spent the weekend at a corporate event with my boyfriend. One of the hosts was overtly flirtatious and over-friendly towards him yet cold towards me to the point that I felt uncomfortable and expressed so. I do have issues with trust – to start with - which R is aware (I'm doing what I can to deal with it), I had knots in my tummy the whole time. My partner tried to reassure me by being affectionate with me in front of her (I was surprised as he is not normally like this).
He reassured me that there was nothing going on – there never has been and that she actually likes his friend – but there was nothing in it for him. She continued to flirt with him for the entire weekend; at one point requesting to hang out with him at a 4 day business event to take place in October.
My partner explained that he would be very busy and maybe they could do lunch at the event- to which she looked disappointed. At this point I disappeared to the loo to take some deep breaths. When I returned they both looked very cheerful.
At the end of the event - another of R's business associates came to say goodbyes and said to my boyfriend - "oh when M is back in town - the 3 of us should all go out for a catch up drink" (she lives in another country) - to which I was astonished as to why this associate would associate the 2 of them together - R said he must have made a mistake and he couldnt help that and he had no idea why he thought he would be going out with a drink with M - as the nature of their work does not coincide that way.
The company have had past events to which my BF has not normally invited me to – this was the first for this company. He tells me he has
I have many questions whirling round in my head – but the chosen one was:
What is the relationship between R and MG?
I received 36.1 .3 to 2
I have thought a great deal about this to the point where it could now mean absolutely anything – such as a temporary darkening of their happiness whilst I am around – but given time as bit more or, my light has darkened because of those 2.
I would be very grateful for any feedback at all - your opinion on what I am being told. OR is there a better question I need to ask?
Soory this is a book - I thought it best to outline as mcuh info as poss.
He reassured me that there was nothing going on – there never has been and that she actually likes his friend – but there was nothing in it for him. She continued to flirt with him for the entire weekend; at one point requesting to hang out with him at a 4 day business event to take place in October.
My partner explained that he would be very busy and maybe they could do lunch at the event- to which she looked disappointed. At this point I disappeared to the loo to take some deep breaths. When I returned they both looked very cheerful.
At the end of the event - another of R's business associates came to say goodbyes and said to my boyfriend - "oh when M is back in town - the 3 of us should all go out for a catch up drink" (she lives in another country) - to which I was astonished as to why this associate would associate the 2 of them together - R said he must have made a mistake and he couldnt help that and he had no idea why he thought he would be going out with a drink with M - as the nature of their work does not coincide that way.
The company have had past events to which my BF has not normally invited me to – this was the first for this company. He tells me he has
I have many questions whirling round in my head – but the chosen one was:
What is the relationship between R and MG?
I received 36.1 .3 to 2
I have thought a great deal about this to the point where it could now mean absolutely anything – such as a temporary darkening of their happiness whilst I am around – but given time as bit more or, my light has darkened because of those 2.
I would be very grateful for any feedback at all - your opinion on what I am being told. OR is there a better question I need to ask?
Soory this is a book - I thought it best to outline as mcuh info as poss.