Hexagrams 51, 22 and 11

[lyrandra]

Hi all,

I have a few questions. Thanks in advance for your help!
I asked:

1. How will he act with me if I send him this (X) message? 51.3.6 > 30
2. How will he act with me if I ignore him? 22 > 22
3. What does he want from me? 11 > 11
4. How is he going to act with me tomorrow? 61.1.3.4 > 44
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1. Is it good or bad? It seems like he will be shocked, but I'm not sure if it's in a good way or bad way? In the message I want to send him, I just basically ask him why he sends me e-mails when he knows how I feel about him. I ask also what does he want from me. He just wants to be friends? He just wants to talk? He just wants be nice? I say that I would like to keep talking to him, but that maybe we could set the record straight so that everything is clear. Maybe it's too much?
2. I don't really know how to relate this one I must say.
3. Is there more to peace than just... peace? He just wants to have a good relationships with me, that's it?

Thanks,
Lyrandra

[willowfox]

1. How will he act with me if I send him this (X) message? 51.3.6 > 30 Probably rather shocked and even confused, and therefore a need to think about what you have said to him.

2. How will he act with me if I ignore him? 22 > 22 It will make very little difference in his actions, as he will just sit and stare.

3. What does he want from me? 11 > 11 Peace and an end to the current problems.

4. How is he going to act with me tomorrow? 61.1.3.4 > 44 Perhaps rather emotional, as it would appear that life has upset him so he will vent his feelings, even if they will be rather extreme.

[lyrandra]

1. How will he act with me if I send him this (X) message? 51.3.6 > 30 Probably rather shocked and even confused, and therefore a need to think about what you have said to him.

2. How will he act with me if I ignore him? 22 > 22 It will make very little difference in his actions, as he will just sit and stare.

3. What does he want from me? 11 > 11 Peace and an end to the current problems.

4. How is he going to act with me tomorrow? 61.1.3.4 > 44 Perhaps rather emotional, as it would appear that life has upset him so he will vent his feelings, even if they will be rather extreme.


Thanks Willowfox. I actually talked to him today. We got things cleared up. I feel like a page is turned, like there is not point to continue talking and it's over. But I still asked a few other questions because I am curious:

How will he act with me now that we got the record straight? 63.4.5.6 > 30
Is it going to go further than that between us at some point? 20.6 > 8

Thanks,
Lyrandra

[willowfox]

How will he act with me now that we got the record straight? 63.4.5.6 > 30 It suggests that from now on he will be very cautious and careful where you are concerned, and therefore reserved in his behaviour towards you.

Is it going to go further than that between us at some point? 20.6 > 8 No, this seems to be a person who has no ambitions in that direction.

[lyrandra]

How will he act with me now that we got the record straight? 63.4.5.6 > 30 It suggests that from now on he will be very cautious and careful where you are concerned, and therefore reserved in his behaviour towards you.

Is it going to go further than that between us at some point? 20.6 > 8 No, this seems to be a person who has no ambitions in that direction.

Hi Willfox,

Thanks again for your answer.

Can I ask you how you read line 6 in hexagram 63? I didn't have any problems with line 4 and 5 that clearly state prudence. But I couldn't figure out line 6 that talks about misfortune iwhen turning back/looking back.