whats my real motivation

[a1real]

In trying to understand myself. I wanted to know whats my real reason for wanting to get back into a relationship with my ex was. Since the break up I been having fun and going out with lots of different women. So im over the lonely periord so i want to know Is this some knee jerk emotional reaction or is it a real thing. So i asked whats my real reason for wanting to get back with my ex and I got 43 L2 changing to 49. Any help on this would be appreciated. I really need to get a calm understanding of myself.

[steve]

Hi A1

I see this line in this context that maybe its like an in-security like a fear of being alone, afraid of change all normal feelings in a break up if you are the one got left.
I suppose you need to get a grip and realise that breakups are like babys being born they happen all the time and possible you could arm yourself with this type of knowledge that its not the end its the beggining.

Steve

Its good that you are asking questions about yourself now and trying to understand your own emotions , which is progress in the healing process.
Soon you will realise that you could be putting your energy somewhere else