Becoming a mom

[shefa]

It's Mother's Day. Today I take ownership of my desire to be a mom.

I asked Yi, what's the current outlook for me becoming a mom?

37 unchanging

[shefa]

OK, I asked a followup and almost fell off my chair by the answer!

What is the outlook for me and X becoming a family?

37. 1.4.6 to 31

[patro]

the answers are very good!!!
37 unchanging is just a confirmation of that you just know!! and the answer is related to your real inner feeling about X!!!
the 37 is related to the family or group that work like a family...
good timing, organization, and character are a must... all have to do and respect it's part of the job and responsible. mutation in 31??? don't forget in all this... love and sexual attraction ....
the IC advice you that a mix of all proper condition are present...
so you only have to start with.....

[willowfox]

It's Mother's Day. Today I take ownership of my desire to be a mom.

I asked Yi, what's the current outlook for me becoming a mom?

37 unchanging

Its up to you, your call as its your decision.

[willowfox]

What is the outlook for me and X becoming a family?

37. 1.4.6 to 31

That's nice and positive.

[shefa]

Thanks! I was really shocked and pleased to see my answers. I know 37 is about family so what could have been a better answer? WF why do you say it's my choice? Does 37 have a choosing aspect to it or do you offer this because the Yi says the conditions are right now I just need to do it if I want? I'm a little scared to become a mom. (Probably not the first woman to feel that way, eh?) I don't really understand all of the lines I got on the second question but the 37 and 31 certainly look promising!

[willowfox]

The woman rules the family household and its her duty to deal with the cooking, accounting, expenditure and the children.

Therefore as you are in charge of your own body, then its your decision, so if you want, then go for it.

[shefa]

Do I assume the 37 to 31 only reflects back to me my attraction to X as suitable Dad or is the mutual attraction implied here, too?

[shefa]

Well I don't know what was going on with Yi yesterday. I asked a followup to the above: what about me meditating about the kind of family I would like to have with X and got 37 again!! This time it was 37.2.5 to 26. Soon after I learned that X has met someone else on a business trip he want to pursue a relationship with. Ouch. So I asked what's the most important thing I need to know about X and me going forward? Got 54.4 to 19. Now how do I know if this is a literal answer to my question (is it best to interpret that way?) or maybe it's telling me not to worry about X (since the 54 tells me I'm second best anyway, right??) but I'll still end up with what I want? I guess either way it says I get what I want later than I was expecting it, but is it with X or with someone else? Help!

[willowfox]

Soon after I learned that X has met someone else on a business trip he want to pursue a relationship with. Ouch. So I asked what's the most important thing I need to know about X and me going forward? Got 54.4 to 19.

Well, the answer involving hex 31 is quite positive but you would have to go through the dating routine in order to make things happen, you know, hold hands then after that its up and away, so to speak.

As for line 54.4, if the guy has his hands on another woman's rosebuds, then you would obviously need to hold back or wait while he had finished his dalliance with her.