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While it's true the offending employee may fade away, still there remains a need for management to give their staff better guidance. They may feel your letter is a real 44.5 gift, especially if your approach is not one of criticism and hysterics but a "hey guys, I like shopping at this store, I want you to be successful so I'm alerting you to an area of concern" sort of approach.
Write something that will leave you feeling you've done your duty as a good citizen to inform them and now you can drop it and walk on.
I've given this some more thought in the last day or two, and I wonder if this is a situation where it actually would have been productive to try to get inside someone else's head via the I Ching.
I understand we're usually advised not to do that, for perfectly good reasons. We're told it's best to ask about things we have control over, such as our own attitude or how we should respond. But in a case like this, I think what was going on with the employee - what was in his head, what his motivation was, what his usual behavior is - may have been the most important thing for Galatea11 to consider.
If it really was an honest mistake or an unusual, rare reaction by the employee (which was my original thought, although I had more doubt by the end of the thread), then bringing an investigation down on his head may have been unkind and unwarranted.
On the other hand, if he habitually bullies customers, then he deserves what he gets.
Maybe a useful question would have been something like, "Why did the employee treat me like that?" or, more simply, "Tell me something I should know about this employee."
Does that seem reasonable? It's too late now, of course, but it might be something to think about for other, similar readings.
It's speculation anyway. A lot of interpretations are speculation, even if the questions aren't in the "sketchy" category. And I honestly don't agree - in general - that this-or-that sort of question should be categorically off-limits. I'm sure people could find examples of asking what was in someone's head or things of that nature which Yi answered perfectly clearly and helpfully, as well as examples of other sorts of responses from Yi.Because even if she asked what was in his head, it would remain speculation.
I don't necessarily disagree with what you're saying about this particular case, Trojina. Maybe reporting it could have been an automatic thing to do, no hesitation required (other than to calm down first, as Galatea11 did, so she could write an effective letter). But - I still think there is some room for seeing Yi's answers as advice not to report it at all, and as long as that fuzziness exists, it might be helpful (for learning about the I Ching, if not about this particular situation) to think about why.
It's speculation anyway. A lot of interpretations are speculation, even if the questions aren't in the "sketchy" category. And I honestly don't agree - in general - that this-or-that sort of question should be categorically off-limits. I'm sure people could find examples of asking what was in someone's head or things of that nature which Yi answered perfectly clearly and helpfully, as well as examples of other sorts of responses from Yi.
And I can see that; thank you for saying it.44.3 describes taking something up as one's duty, etc etc.
I have never ever said in my life that any question is 'categorically off limits' or even off limits, yet people constantly project those words or that thought even though no such thing was ever said.
No, of course it wasn't her place to think about what was going on in his head.
No it doesn't seem remotely reasonable to me to suggest that Galatea take responsibility for what was in his head
I think it would have been pretty ineffective to come at this issue by asking what was in the security guard's head.
However my approach to the oracle differs fundamentally from yours. I see it as a personal guide, a guide for one's own actions, attitudes etc. You sometimes seem to view it as a kind of esoteric Wikipedia. Because of this our views will at times very widely diverge. What people think the oracle is for very much impacts on the kinds of questions they ask.
the majority of my problems and confusion in life are practical everyday things, so that's what my questions are about
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