Good afternoon ,
i wonder if you can help me with the following both hexagramms i received when sending a good-bye letter to my friend/guy:
Q: "Is this letter okay as it is?"
32 Duration (no changing lines)
Q: "What will happen once i sent this letter?"
55.2 Abundance [Fullness] -> 34 The Power of the Great
The background situation is the following:
(sorry i am german so my english is not the best)
I was with a guy (lets call him F.) who, many years back, was married to a pretty crazy woman. They have 2 girls of 10 a. 12 y. living with her. Since 9 years F.`s exwife terrorises him sometimes more sometimes less
He called her the "plague of the century".
F and i kept our relationship absolutely secret so exwife and kids would not become jealous. (We live in the same house but in seperate flats. So that was easy to manage.) However for me that was only a parttime solution. I asked F. many months back to set out some basic rules and regulations for his exwife, f. e. making monthly "babysitting plans" and directing their communication towards emailing instead of talking/phoning which often ended up in bad argueings (you do not pay enough, donīt care enough..etc.. which is all but in any way true). F agreed and eventually handed exwife a letter over saying all this... sigh... but nothing changed. F. did not stick to any of the regulations himself. In the end he told me, he shortly has to do "babysitting" as his exwife has to do "important" work - whatever this means...
Friends of mine adviced me to split which i did yesterday. That was not easy for me as we did really liked and loved each other.
I put a short good-bye letter into his letterbox saying: to me he is "working" for the wrong woman and that will not work out with me.
Before i sent this letter, i asked the I ching, if this letter is okay, well written... and received 32
and then i asked: what will happen once i sent this letter? receiving 55.2 -> 34
To me this relationship is finished and i have no hope anymore - though i like to understand the I ching better.
How would you read 55.2 Abundance [Fullness] -> 34 The Power of the Great ? And why did i receive 32? Any thoughts?