Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
Hello,
Time has passed and my husband is leaving on Jan 18th for his flight to NZ and then his cycle back to UK in time. Given a date the grief, as he's not committing to coming back necessarily, is really hitting home now - and he is going down to tell my parents this Sunday. I am still in limbo in finding a plan of my own yet & although I have support here, I will still be losing my home & job. Something is in the way to my being able to find the next step & I don't know what it is. I Ching advised my next step after his leaving as 1 - line 2, which I will do. (seperate question probably). But as this is breaking my heart, I finally asked the I Ching 'how will this seperation affect our marriage?' and got hexagram 27 lines 1 & 3.
I found a good thread about this specifically on relationships but with 2 different interpretations - and my own feeling is now one of pure fear as I have such a deep love for him and am terrified that he is throwing something away without realising what he is doing - 'grass is greener'. But it could also be that I am not willing to look at my own independence.
What do you think? I just want to get this right - both my next steps and do whatever I possibly can to help this marriage which deep down I don't think is in trouble & now because of this risk, it could be. With appreciation for any insights, Hebe
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).