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I've had hex 23 before when asking about relationships and thought that the end was nigh! But we're still together It can just be stripping away as opposed to splitting apart, so getting down to the nitty gritty and past all those pretences that we build around us and seeing if there is anything behind it. Also one line says no blame and the other that everything acts to further, add that to your relating hex of 53 I don't necessarily see it as a really bad omen for a relationship.
As for trojan, thanks for trying to help. But I would prefer more detailed explanation how you got that. No offense, but it doesn't really make sense to me because hex 23 should happen before hex 53. and your interpretation is they are happening simultaneously.
Thank you for sharing your experience. We kinda need to fix some problems between us right now. As a matter of fact, we are having a lot of issues right now. So I guess it is the same situation as yours before? I was confused because hex 23 and hex 53 look like two completely opposite in terms of relationships. So I am not sure I should be happy or should be worried.
As for trojan, thanks for trying to help. But I would prefer more detailed explanation how you got that. No offense, but it doesn't really make sense to me because hex 23 should happen before hex 53. and your interpretation is they are happening simultaneously.
Your answer sounds to me like your bf is pretty much a ladies man, ie he
really likes a crowd of admirers, and even if he temporarily seems to be
cutting away from that lifestyle, he will stil revert back to it. Then if you
decide you truly want to stick with him, you'll have to turn a blind eye so
to speak, and just opt for not saying a word. I know it sounds weird, but
in reality very many women do just that, if they really want to keep the
particular man. So i get the impression that if you do that, then after
quite a bit of ups and downs, the guy will stick with you in the end for
a very nice future together.
Hexagram 23 does not happen before 53 unless you are so new to the I Ching you still think the second hexagram is 'the future'. It isn't ...its the background, where you are coming from which of course does contain elements of where you are going
This seperating is happening gradually perhaps, its something you need to shed...or even as Nicky said something in the relationship you need to shed. Its very gradual though. You would not cast 23 without shedding happening somewhere in the situation.
23,3 and 23.5 are the least painful lines of 23 so thats why i said 'drifting' apart. In 23.3 one voluntarily lets go of things that aren't working...its not like someone finishing with you..you let them go..gradually letting them them go perhaps because of other connections coming (23.5)
"No offense" but I won't be trying to help you again as I have the impression you are only open to 'nice ending' answers right now
Trojan, I am kinda new to iching (and I didn't have any kind of trainings). I saw some people said the second hex is 'the future', that's why I think it's the 'future'. So come on, don't stop helping me as I know you're a nice person. and I appreciate that you tried to help me before.
Hi Diamanda, you're right. he is pretty much a ladies man (he used to be a player when he was young). I am really curious how you got this because I couldn't even understand what the to changing lines are trying to say. And thank you for your answer, I really appreciate it.
It's good for things as they will be. Try going in that direction
53 has the story of traditional marriage to it but it doesnt necessarily signify that. At its base its something that gradually develops through progress and stages, which is shown with the geese and the lines.
My friend is going to marry at the weekend and its a traditional asyrian wedding, and she's italian so some italian traditions are thrown in there too and general western ones. Literally this whole year my whole social life has been attending celebrations for this wedding and occassion to ocassion I have watched her change from the first occasion where she yelled at her mum the whole time and felt controlled by her fiances mother and sister, to the bridal shower where she was the life of the party and then the hen's night where she just seemed really at home with herself and very connected with her family.
Other processes can grow us, doesnt have to be a wedding, but the formalised structure and obligatory events of marriage give a sort of alembic to the process of transformation, (transformation can be gleaned from line 6) and a nice metaphor.
What are your plans for this relationship? Do you plan on marrying him, or do you hope to? If you both plan on marrying each other this could be read as having a vow ending but through a process of stripping, which could be very fertile indeed. If one of you doesn't want to get married, then we could read this as in terms of any future marriage there will be splitting shedding, what have you...do you see where I'm going...(what if neither fo you want a traditional marriage??)
Can't you ask your partner what his thoughts are on your future? It just seems like some of your ponderings could be answered with a frank discussion. Yi can only tell you so much really. Whatever the outward manifestation of the future , you'll be going through gradual process of decomposing (bradford) that which cannot last. Also gleaning from bradford's ebook, whatever the situation is right now is decomposing so no point following a direction with that.
No, thats just a vicious rumour put about...don't listen to it, I'm vile
Heh I kinda liked the way chingching put it about the sticking plaster...and i don't think its a definate prediction that you'll split up...just somewhere along the line theres a gradual peeling away and as you asked about the future of the relationship in general terms thats how it appears to me...as painless as any peeling away can be.
...but he doesn't like girls who are too emotional
yeah... It doesnt sound like the relationship is in the right place for a big commitment.
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I know I have tried to change myself for someone more than once, and then I've meet people who like me the way I am... who I've preferred to be with is a no brainer.
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