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Dear Moses,
I am sorry to hear that you are still struggling with this relationship. Here are few ideas that might help you.
Q: How is my ex feeling about her situation?
A: 36.1.3.4 >16
Well, you must have already figured out that there is something really bad happening to her. The problem is both external and internal (I think that she is suffering from depression and finding it really difficult to cope with the problem).
She seems to have realised what the source of the problem is, but this is something that has been going on for a while, so it cannot be sorted out altogether overnight. But my impression is that she is about to make a decision to get her out of this situation. She feels that there is no point in fighting the problem any more, things are unlikely to improve, so she needs to get out., whatever the situation might be.
And, How do I attract my ex back into my life as my lover?
A: 23.2.4 64
I don't think that the Yi is telling you how to do that, I am afraid. But what the Yi is telling you is that the situation between you and your ex is in such a bad state that whatever you try to do it simply doesn't work. It is also saying that this is affecting you deeply, both on practical and emotional level. You have no peace of mind any more. It is like the whole structure is being split apart, it is collapsing altogether. Maybe it does need disintegrating completely and then you can consider if you can leave the old structure behind and re-start on a completely different basis.
Take care:bows:
Dear Moses,
I have just thought about bits of my experience that might help you. The thing about the Yi is that its not only about the understanding that you get from your readings (in terms of information, clarification, etc..) but also about the use that you make of your readings.
For instance, when you get Q: How is my ex feeling about her situation? A: 36.1.3.4 >16 the Yi is telling you that your ex is not in a good place right now. So, what do you make of this? Does she need help? Can you help her? Is it possible for you and her to talk openly about her situation?
The same applies to the question What kind of future does "my ex" see for us romantically?: 5.2.3.5>24) The Yi is describing her view on your relationship with this "waiting time" hexagram. Sometimes, there are things in life that we cannot have now, as we want. But there are different ways of waiting, which your lines are talking about. You can wait in anxiety, anger, frustration or you can wait in calm, acceptance, relaxation, in confidence that the future will be for the better.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
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+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).