dear readers,

Ive been on and off in a relationship with a man who is very traumatised. I am too, but im doing a lot better then before. he drinks too much because of this. I feel deep love and a deep connection, and everytime we break up I come back to him. Now he started therapy. I suggested to not see each other for 3 months, to have time to think, heal and see what happens. (when we break up I do date other people, dont know if it is important to mention )

i asked what can I expect if I/we take this road (no contact for 3 months)

im not sure how to read 38.3.5

hex 1 seems to indicate a direction that could be positive..

I would really apreciate youre insights!

Hi Freya,

Your reading seems to be saying that this is the right decision and asking for a break to re-think the relationship will help to bring understanding and will result in better conditions for union, rather than in separation. :bows:

thank you Mirian, I think so too but not easy to let go! I will post again after the 3 months and let you know

now I asked what can I develop in the relationship with x and got

44.6 to 28, this seems quite heavy, should I learn not to care what others think? I wonder if this is something
I should learn since most off my friends advice me not to be with X

28 sounds like it could work if a lot of heavy lifting is done..what do you think?