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Go out of the courtyard but where to Hex 60.2>3

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goddessliss

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Things have gone full circle in my life and I've asked the question -

What am I not doing in my life that I could be doing

Hex 60.2>3

Well I would love to be mixing with others and although I do have a bit of a social life it's quite limited and I'm aware I need to make more contacts/friends.

Since arriving here 4 weeks ago I've had a job that only lasted a week although I connected quite well with the owner but we've had no further contact. I went out on New Years Eve and met a potential man but he never rang me, I've joined a couple of social groups but no events for socialising have taken place, I've reunited and reconnected with old friends but not much going on there really as in a constant social life and I go to the local beach most days but haven't met anyone new.

What else could the going out the courtyard mean?

Thanks, Liss
 

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HI Liss,

I think you may need to view the reading from a different plane; since your actions as you say can very much be described with "going out of the courtyard" it means not likely " go out, join a club etc" Given that the containing Hex is 60 Limitation, it may mean that you need to change your frame of reference internally - that there are beliefs and concepts inside you that keep you inside the courtyard. The text says "Galling limitation must not be persevered in" pointing to the fact that you yourself might cut you off from the communication and contact that you wish for.
I realize that this is pretty general and abstract advice :) but nonetheless believe it to be true. I think the reading refers to spiritual practice and making a change there. Actually, the reading is quite hopeful, since the changing Hex 3 tells you that this will lead to a new (even if difficult at first) beginning.
All the best

maui
 
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sooo

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I can relate with maui's comments. Usually line 2 isn't so much about where I'm going to as much as where I'm coming from, or where I'm sprouting or emerging from. Opening the gate is like opening my mind. It's difficult because we become set in our ways, especially as we age, and usually without even realizing it.

Receiving both lines 1 and 2 used to present a conflict, but sometimes staying in is without blame so long as I leave my current perspective. When I change that perspective, doors seem to open for me.
 
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goddessliss

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Thanks maui and sooo - I understand what you're saying and I know that I've been working on changing that mindset obviously I need to work on it more although at present I can't really work out what more needs changing - oh well I'll keep workin' on it :eek:uch:
 
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goddessliss

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That has been my thought maui (not surprising as sooo and I do think alike in a lot of ways)and I've thought I need to be more open and less closed although I'm so used to my own company now I can sometimes not be bothered...Liss
 
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sooo

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This is a good example that not everything is a matter of right or wrong but of either/or. The question wasn't about what you should be doing but about what you could be doing differently. I chuckled at your candid comment, Liss: "I'm so used to my own company now I can sometimes not be bothered." If you added the condition that you firmly want greater social engagement or relationships, that it was worth being bothered, then the could becomes a should, because it's what you really want.

Real relationships involve effort and some degree of sacrifice. So, I think the real question is, what do you really want? You are not unlikeable or unattractive, but you may be emotionally unavailable. Maybe that's the gate?
 
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goddessliss

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Oh gosh possibly who would know unless it's a relationship/friendship worth investing my emotional self - there's is only one long lost friend at this stage I can really be bothered with and at present she's gone to Tassie for a holiday - well it's one of her bucket list items! She should be back by the end of the month - see how I feel then.
But seriously I guess it's not so much about the relationships it's more about having someone to go out with to see live bands mainly but it seems all my friends are stuck in their ruts - long term relationships n all that - I used to be so envious but now I'm grateful I've had many years on my own to become 'alive' again. - Liss
 
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goddessliss

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I've asked this about a particular friend whom I used to be real close to but something's changed - well I have in myself, anyway I asked.

How can I progress my friendship with M

Hex 18.2.3.5.6>8

Hex 18 - that which has been spoiled through neglect can be rejuvenated through effort - hmm I wonder if that means mine or her effort or both of us. I note she's lost a lot of confidence over the years since we were close friends and I've gained a lot.
Hex 8 - Hold together with others but keep my own inner truth.

Our difference is that I believe in being here for spiritual growth purposes and my working with others and my life reflects that, whereas she doesn't believe and that stems from her dad dying 10 years ago and she says she's never, ever received a sign from him that the other side exists because he would have shown her if it was truth.

Please show me the way to remedy the deterioration between M and I

Hex 30.1.3.4>23

Hex 30 - Clarity and keeping to truth, acceptance of the situation and again keeping to ones truth.

Sounds to me that we've had our Hex 23 time and in time things will work themselves out with her and I.

- Liss
 

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