Why are we incompatible? 38.1.3.4.5>57

Because we see things differently (38)
Because I am not part of the group (38)

38.1 Do not run after this person: if it is meant to, she will come to you
38.3 If you feel you are made for each other, remain faithful to them

I think this is the first time I get 4 moving lines.. I usually just get one or two ..

I am not sure that this reading is showing that you are actually incompatible. What it is showing is that there are differences to be acknowledged and worked through, and that if you are meant to be together that will happen. I think there is sincerity in this relationship.

The result will depend on whether you have the patience to work at this. Your own attitude is likely to play a strong part in how this relationship develops, and how successful it is.