I asked the Yi to please just tell me what I most need to know about Mr. X and our situation. It answered 19 Approach, unchanging.

I really didn't understand so I asked for further clarification and got 55.1.4
the changing lines really reminded me that the Yi is real and answers questions because the changing lines say:

When a man meets his destined ruler, they can be together for 10 days and it is not a mistake. Going meets with recognition.

4. the curtain is of such fullness, that the polestars can be seen at noon
He meets his ruler, who is of like kind. Good fortune.

Does anyone see any connection between Hex 19 and Hex 55?

What are polestars?

Are 10 days symbolic of a time period or does that mean something else?

It the Yi telling me that I have met my "ruler" or that my ruler approaches? Is the "ruler" a soulmate?

I also asked:

Will X initiate contact with me again or try to seek me out?

(because he is not one to beg!)

I got 22.4.6 ----> leading to Hex 55 again.
Grace or Simplicity
A white horse comes as if on wings
He is not a robber, he will woo at the right time
Simple Grace, no blame.

Dear Laylab,

not only would I like to stress that the answers in the other thread of the valued other posters maremaria and Topal were so right to the point according to my understanding,

but I would also like to send you a little link about what the word love can also mean:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T-3VZlS8r1Y

And please, take your time and a peaceful hour to let the message sink in.

....

And another take on it:

There is a song (I can't tell if the song's style is your cup of tea, only by change it is mine),

but the lines are:

Here's a wishing well
Here's a penny for
Any thought it is
That makes you smile
Every diamond dream
Everything that brings
Love and happiness
To your life

Here's a rabbit's foot
Take it when you go
So you'll always know
You're safe from harm
Wear your ruby shoes
When you're far away
So you'll always stay
Home in your heart

You will always have a lucky star
That shines because of what you are
Even in the deepest dark
Because your aim is true
And if i could only have one wish
Darling, then it would be this
Love and happiness for you

Here's a spinning wheel
Use it once you've learned
There's a way to turn
The straw to gold
Here's a rosary
Count on every bead
With a prayer to keep
The hope you hold

You will always have a lucky star
That shines because of what you are
Even in the deepest dark
Because your aim is true
And if I could only have one wish
Darling, then it would be this
Love and happiness for you
And if I could only have one wish
Darling, then it would be this
Love and happiness for you

(M. Knopfler, E. Harris, Love and Happiness)


Can we tell this is our genuine feeling about a person we left (or we were left behind, that not really matters)?

Then, perhaps for the first time, we could call it love. And this love asks for happiness for the other one, which is a fundamental healing act in really, energetically letting him fly. Would he come again? It also depends on your approach towards yourself...

...

To the answers of the Yi now:

55, Fullness, is also fullness of troubles. 10 days are a symbolical, and short period of time. The darkness surrounding you in this question is so strong (it is about a solar eclipse, when it gets night dark right in the middle of the day, so you are able to see even the quaint Polestar).

22 is not the right time to decide important matters. One sees not clearly, as Topal said, through the rose colored glasses. Thats why Confucius felt very uneasy when he got this hexagram one time.

Sometimes the best thing for two people who share a "cosmically strong connection" is to stay where they are, work on their own understanding, and don't bother the other one with their respective "persona".

Perhaps I have said to much.

Love,

Soshin

"I got 22.4.6 ----> leading to Hex 55 again.
Grace or Simplicity
A white horse comes as if on wings
He is not a robber, he will woo at the right time
Simple Grace, no blame."

And yes, if he comes back on his own accord, after both of you did your homework, and I think the Yi talks about this could be possible, both of you could tell the difference.

Because that's how it would feel like.

Namaste,

Soshin

Soshin,

what a beautiful poem. Your words were full of compassion. Thank you

I will go contemplate it.