No, no, it's not a foursome.
I've cast four questions to the I Ching. And I would really appreciate your help with the answers I've received.

My first question was:
What is my position in this relationship?
7.1 leading to 19

Second question:
What is his position in this relationship?
3.6 leading to 42

Third question:
Where will this relationship lead to?
18.5 leading to 57

And last question:
What can I do to let this relationship grow?
60.1.6 leading to 59

Can anybody shed some light on these answers please?

My first question was:
What is my position in this relationship?
7.1 leading to 19

It suggests that your current position is that of a follower full of hope that the relationship will blossom.

Second question:
What is his position in this relationship?
3.6 leading to 42

It would seem that he is rather pessimistic about this relationship, perhaps he feels that it is not going to work, so he has a feeling to throw in the towel without even trying to make an effort here, but if he were to try, then this relationship could prove to be a success for him. But will he see it that way?

Third question:
Where will this relationship lead to?
18.5 leading to 57

It appears that he has had a problematic relationship in the past and it is still very much uppermost in his mind now, so he needs help to overcome his negative attitude, then slowly the relationship can grow.

And last question:
What can I do to let this relationship grow?
60.1.6 leading to 59

It appears that you are facing a lot of problems with this guy, it ain't going to be easy, firstly, you have to be very cautious in how you deal with him because if you push too hard he will run away so slowly get more involved with him, more friendly, slowly open up to him then you will melt the blockages that are holding him back.

Thank you for your help Willowfox.
Looks like you are spot on the situation.
You discribed it very well.
My respect again