• Jun 24, 2009

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I really need help on this one being new to the whole iching thing.

I asked the question about what will the person X do about me?

got 44.1.6 changing to 43.

We are post-breakup, but I still think about him. Could you decipher this for me please?

 

• Jun 24, 2009

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tali

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In fact, literally the question was:
What is his strategy with regards to me?

This person always has strategies, hence the question. I was thinking to go back to him, but I guess I'm too scared of him at the same time.

I guess I was trying to predict his reaction to me re-appearance.

Please-please help me!

 

• Jun 25, 2009

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Line 44.1 suggests that he doesn't want to get involved, and line 44.6 suggests that again, he doesn't want to have any involvement with you anymore, so if you try, then you can expect him to be very angry with you.

 

• Jun 25, 2009

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tali

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Thanks! It confirms my suspicion.

Also, when asked "what he thinks of me now" I got 54.4

How bad is that?

 

• Jun 25, 2009

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tali

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sorry, not 54.4, but 50.4.
What is the meaning of that?

 

• Jun 25, 2009

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tali

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Also, i asked whether this person still loves me, got 18.6

Not good, eh?

 

• Jun 25, 2009

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50.4 this line is about the prince's dinner being spilt, so it does indeed show an unhappy man, he don't like you.

18.6 Nope, he has his own agenda these days, and your not on it.

 

• Jun 25, 2009

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tali

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Thank you!

Strangely enough though, I got 21 when I asked whats my the best course of action wrt
this person...

 

• Jun 26, 2009

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tali said:

Thank you!

Strangely enough though, I got 21 when I asked whats my the best course of action wrt
this person...

Click to expand...

Ask yourself, is he worth the effort that you would have to put into it? You must be the judge of that.

 

• Jun 26, 2009

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Thank you, though I would've never thought to interpret it that way.

The question:

" HOw beneficial is it for me to forget about this person?"

I got 57.2.4. ->33

And another one:

"Did this person truly forgot me and wrote me off?"

15.2.3.5. ->29

This is way above my head....Any insight would be really helpful!!! Thanks!

 

Last edited: Jun 26, 2009

• Apr 21, 2012

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You cannot find out what another's person strategy is. Behind your question is your own desperation of wanting to know that and this is, in my opinion, your hexagram should be related to. If looked at it this way, line 1 suggests that you should stop doing exactly this and line 6 suggests that if you do that you will experience difficulties when you stop yourself worrying about what his strategy might be and that you should bare that frustration with humility - meaning with humility towards your own inner dependency rather than being cold and distanced towards it. All of this successfully applied leads to a break through in 43. As I said, I strongly believe that it is about you and not this person and what you think he might do or not do.