Hello everyone. This is my first post and I do feel someone out there can better help me then I could on my lonesome.

In short, I just broke up with my girlfriend and moved out and into my sister's for the time being. In this short amount of time I hit it off with her room mate who we'll call K.

Although K is attracted to me and I to her, she is kinda seeing this other guy and recently, things just dificult between us. All this after I asked her out, because I do feel in my heart she should be with me.

So I consulted the I ching on the matter and I got the following.

What is going on now? Why is she so distant?
Hexagram 38 Line 1 and Line 4

I kinda understood what was being said but im so damn insecure i feel like i botched it the other night when i didnt kiss her cause we were all dirnking ( im not one to take advantage of a girl whos clearly drunk )

and so then i asked,

What would be the best course of action now in my sitatuon with K?
Hexagram 57 Line 2, Line 4 and Line 5

I kinda get it though since it does talk about someone potentially working against me here and i do believe its this other guy whom ive met. But i just dont know how to make sense of it. Is my want for this girl botching my readings?

Someone please break it down for me!