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I asked what was the insigh for me and the man I love. He deals with huge emotional issues, now we just fought because he had another person in his life ,a close friend. But not anymore. But he does not talk to me now. He needs therapy before relating to anybody, I am wondering if its right for me to try to push him to go to Therapy whilst every says I should leave him as he is. but I see him unhappy and misleading everybody including himself in hi search of what he misses insight,
I got Hexagram 48 no changing lines when I asked about insight, what does it means?
Thank you
What I cant do, is giving him a therapy, it must be somebody that is not related to him, and the only I can is to push him but I feel that because our connection, doing like this I hurt his self esteem and thats why he searches for other women that flatter him and then after a short period of time, he leaves them.
However I just knew he is not anymore with this woman.
I decided I will read the iching morning and night, to see how the situation is evolving.
Thank you for your kind post, that hexagram seem so beautiful that I was tempted to believe that maybe something could be solved if I keep nourishing him trying him to see the need for him to take care of himself, and yes when we relate with somebody unhealthy we become at least a bit unhealthy ourselves, then we need to be more aware of how we are dealing with our own self.
I will read the Iching again, to see how is evolving my relationship with him
Thank you
I would like to know how this progressed. I am in a very similar situation at the moment.
My intuitive feelings interprets this as : we are the place where people gather and find nourishment. The well does not sacrifice itself when it gives of it's water. It also does not move. Sometimes maybe we just need to love someone - without any expectation or attachment and in that, find our worth and they, their healing. Without feeling "love", we may not even be aware that we need to do it.
Without attachment, is the hardest part. Staying healthy, clear and still, makes this hard.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).