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one of the possible advices of this hexagram is to marry! but it's a border-line advice, all is depending from your interest about him
this answer the questions. you are the ruler... to who one looks and join to progress in the same direction with the same ideas.patro - You bring up something very interesting. Who is the ruler? He likes to follow. He likes to be submissive. He likes for me to take charge.
nopeThanks patro. I did read that about robbing as well. I was thinking from the original question about how he perceives me... and it would seem he might be concerned I would be robbed. Not sure tho.
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he percive you as the ruler. the one to follow...
the robber thing is an advice... to mantain the status.
yesHow would you take robber? As someone else snatching him up?
it's this one.or
Do you think that I need to guard against another girl taking him from me?
Sorry. THANK YOU FOR ALL OF THIS!
ahh ... he sees you as **his people**. 45, I think, could point to this perception ...
I asked How does X perceive me? and got 45 unchanging.
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I suppose no one can ever really know how another person is perceiving them or maybe it does not matter in the end anyway. I do feel this extreme connection with Him and I cannot help but have a desire to know his perception of me.
nebu - "the intention was to ask 'how am I coming across?" ... nebu, I would say that is sort of my intention, but I also wanted, in the back of my mind, to get an archetypical view of how I am coming across to him. (Am I a mothering figure, am I a fun factor, am I a sex goddess to him) Do you see what I mean? Is this the wrong approach?
ace - "45 for me has been a quite a social hexagram"
I can see this being of importance. I am a very social person. I like to go out, mingle with friends (and new faces). I also do not mind controlling the conversation or at least having a large part in keeping it going. I have a lot of friends from all around, although I don't see a lot of them enough. Maybe he see's me as a social outlet. But like you said, maybe he sees me as someone to unite with. I do LIKE that thought!
When I think about him and I "Uniting" it seems like a super human god-like thing to me. I am not trying to be arrogant. I feel like right where I am lacking (and working on bettering myself), he is already accomplished or is naturally sound. And vice versa. Like two pieces of a puzzle that could never be that strong unless together.
..thanks everyone.
The Yi is flattering you. Hexagram 45 is the picture of a temple gate, like a torii. A temple gate gives access to the spiritual, so X perceives you as a spiritual person. Does X know about your Yi Jing interest?
I think there are two separate things here. One is building self-awareness, another is knowing where you stand with another person.
When you say this part "Am I a mothering figure, am I a fun factor, am I a sex goddess to him) Do you see what I mean? Is this the wrong approach?" then I agree with Trojan and others that the only way to know is to talk to him about it and see what response you get and go from there. It's definitely not the approach I was describing, because your intent isn't to increase your self-awareness or improve the accuracy of your self-perception, or strengthen your own growth process.
In a relationship of any type - work, friendship, family, romance - it's natural to think about how the other person is viewing things, because how they view things is relevant to their behaviour.
You're not two halves making a whole. You're two separate wholes, who will choose to be together with each other, or not.
Hexagram 45 unchanging asks you to consider what you're investing your energy in, where you're placing the focus of your energy. It's about gathering various elements into an organised whole. My take on this is that that whole is you, and it's talking about you uniting with yourself, i.e. building yourself into a unity, a whole unit.
imo the yi is always be able to answer to any questions.... we need to learn and to understand more deeply how the yi interact with us. the yi interact in a special way with each one of us.
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I see what the Yi is saying now for my Question thru 45 unchanging.
I would have to disagree. I am going with my gut here. I don't think it is saying that the "whole" is me. I don't think that Q: How X perceives me - is - A: him seeing me uniting/working on myself. I think that is a little off, but an interesting view. Thanks nebu.
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