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17.5 to 51 - the right thing to do?

JoeCampbell

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If there's anyone who can give me a definitive answer to this, then perhaps I'll get a decent nights sleep for once! Thanks. After I separated from my wife I started seeing a girl, this has been going on for two years but has been hampered, partly by my unwillingness to jump wholeheartedly into another relationship so soon after my marriage, and partly by my wondering if there is "anything better for me" out there. I like her very much indeed, and despite some major differences we get on very well. We split up recently as she needs more commitment and I needed time alone, and now I am missing her and finding myself wanting to get back together and give it all I have got. My question to Yi was "what is the right thing to do about S?" and the answer I got is above.
Reading through the posts I find some interpretations that seem to say "go for it" and others that say "wait" - and needless to say, I am stuck.
And I'm losing sleep - anyone, what is the right thing to do?
Thanks in advance from a novice...
 

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Yi seems to have advised you to give her all your confidence.

You might ask Yi, "What might I expect if I give her all my confidence?" since that is what you feel inclined to do anyway.
:)
 

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I think ginnie has it right. I'll just add that 17 is about following, giving control over to the subject of your question: her (i.e. giving her your confidence). The fact that this changes into 51 seems to indicate that she might not immediately be so quick to accept:

Shock comes-oh, oh!
Laughing words -ha, ha!

But this could be short-lived. Just a warning to consider. But I think the answer is: the right thing to do is see if she wants to get back together, and then play it from there.
 

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Thank you all! - you have confirmed that perhaps the time alone is a good thing, time to reflect on whether I really mean it, and to act thereafter. I am sure I am not alone in saying how grateful I am not to be alone in trying to interpret Yi. Thank you again.
 

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Yi seems to have advised you to give her all your confidence.

You might ask Yi, "What might I expect if I give her all my confidence?" since that is what you feel inclined to do anyway.
:)
Hi Ginnie, I took your advice and got 64.2.4.6 >2.......so if you have the time or inclination to comment on that I'd be grateful.
 

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64.2.4.6 > 2

There's a challenging task requiring much physical stamina and use of force hidden in your situation. Do you have any idea what that is all about?
 

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Hi Ginnie - actually none at all...but thank you anyway, there's some thinking to be done :)
 

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