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thank you! it feels different now.Glad things are a little better with X!
I don't think the reading's saying to wait. That wouldn't be like hexagram 1. I think it's just not guaranteeing anything - probably fair enough.
Line 4 could probably mean a lot of things - from something that never really takes off, to a "dance" of sorts that's perfectly normal for a new (or rekindled) relationship. There's some uncertainty, maybe a pause to get one's bearings, things like that.
Not sure what to make of 37. It's often about keeping order in the home, everyone fulfilling their roles.
This is a good point, and now I'm confused about the reading. Maybe the wavering in line 4 is your own. If you meet him with all of this in your mind, it might make you self-conscious or ill at ease in odd ways, which he might pick up on. Maybe there's a message in the fact that Yi stopped the reading just short of line 5, the dragon fully taking flight.I reflected on this thread a bit - reaching out in hopes to reconnect is rather self-centered, could be manipulative and so is apologizing just to alleviate guilt. I am sure my actions hurt him, and it is very possible he would not want to 'try again.' its worth sitting with my motivations. I sincerely regret my actions but an apology can't be "loaded"
61. Inner Trust
Line 2:
A crane makes sounds in the shadows,
her young responds to it.
I have a fine flagon of wine,
me and you together will waste it.
Being close and connected to someone in a relationship of sharing.
Line 4:
The moon is nearly full.
One of the pair of horses runs away.
Without fault.
One goes one's own way, in order to be true to oneself. This is a good moment for that. It is not wrong to do so.
(The moon being nearly full, means that the amount of light at night is at this maximum the coming days. Things are at its clearest now.)
Hexagram is changing to:
25. Without Pretense
Without pretense.
A foundation for progress.
It is beneficial to persist.
In fact, not being pure is a severe mistake.
It is a disadvantage to have a goal to move to.
Being oneself, natural, without making an effort to appear different than one really is. This makes real progress possible. It's beneficial to continue being this way. Not being thus is in fact a severe mistake. Pursuing a goal may make it necessary to go against one's feelings, so this is a disadvantage to being oneself.
She did that because, unsurprisingly, people were being taken in by 61.2's beautiful language and concluding Yi was promising the moon, sun, and stars. Sounds like you already understood, though:The crane calls her young one to a safer place; the wine-cup is shaped like a bird, and these two parts of the line are parallel, images for a single act of profound sharing. A true soul-level connection. (Which is not to be confused with a fully-realised successful relationship.) The important thing is to make contact - not to convey specific information, but as an empathic connection.
I take it as being sincere but not putting any hope in something coming of a message.
Of course there could be various other forms of "moving on" at work here. You moved on (from him to X), now you're moving on from X, and/or maybe he has moved on, in the meantime.This might be too specific, but I wonder if 61.4 could mean this initial contact will end without any plans being made for getting together again? And that is "without fault."
Yes, I am catching myself in this. The moving on from X has simply brought u reflections about the past. For a moment I built hopes up but they are settling down again with a hard *thunk* once reality settles in that I am losing myself in fantasy again.Nothing to do with the readings but be careful you don't build up such a beautiful picture of this relationship it falls short on reality. I have seen this over and over again here with relationship questions, one guy flew out to meet his lover on the strength of I Ching readings and they had nothing in common and it didn't work.
Also beware making a narrative wholly where you were bad and he was good.
I mean yes take the readings into account but stay close to the reality at the same time. I say this not to be a miserable meanie but because I'm getting worried about how much this is being built up. It's being built up on this thread to the point where a dose of reality is needed in case of that old relationship question syndrome where the answers don't manifest as envisaged.
Why not just get in touch simply and see his response before further questions. I don't think you or anyone should build this up more without talking to him.
I maybe repeating things as not read all replies. The longer you leave it and the more it's built up the harder it could be when it doesn't go as planned so it's him to talk to next. It could go just as well as people are making out, I hope it does, but check in with him about this before more build up.
yes, I made that error with X after receiving the line several times. Its very tempting to get one's hopes up over poetry.Hilary has attached a bit of a public service announcment to 61.2 in WikiWing (the underlined part):
She did that because, unsurprisingly, people were being taken in by 61.2's beautiful language and concluding Yi was promising the moon, sun, and stars. Sounds like you already understood, though:
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