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ichinglover

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Dear friends

I'd love to get your feedback on this.

I asked Yi ching 2 questions, and I'm not sure it or rather I cam handle the questions or the answers.

here it is:

Should I prepare to spend my life alone? (I'm single and never married with the string of wrong relationships ending not nicely)

10.3 ->1

What is my destiny romantically?

27.2.3.5 ->?

I feel that every time I ask question of this magnitude, about my life, destiny and not some concrete situation in the present or really close future, I get really depressing answers. Or is it my sadness and fear talking?

Well, your ideas are highly appriciated as usual!
 
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Should I prepare to spend my life alone? 10.3 ->1

You say that you have had a few disastrous relationships but that is no reason to just give up, here you need to keep trying as your life is far from over.

What is my destiny romantically? 27.2.3.5 -> 9

You are hungry for love and that is making you ill at ease with your life, it suggests that there is a longing within you that you need that you must fill, you therefore need to stop this craving. So it suggests that you join with others to help people in some way, in that way you will help to satisfy your hunger but to also come into contact with agreeable people that you can relate to.
Hex 9 indicates that you need to be patient and wait as your future mate has not introduced himself to you yet.
 
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I know that this thread is old but

it's the weird thing...

Apparently I got 27.2.3.5 > 9 combination before just as I've got it tonight
when I asked

What should I be concentrating on tomorrow?

The answer was 27.2.3.5 > 9


In this thread I got this combination asking about my romantic destiny,
assuming one exists at all.

I'm curious is this a mere coincidence?

What is Yi telling me here with the same hex and lines to a different question?
 

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I asked Yi ching 2 questions, and I'm not sure it or rather I cam handle the questions or the answers.

here it is:

Should I prepare to spend my life alone? (I'm single and never married with the string of wrong relationships ending not nicely)

10.3 ->1
Here is some commentary on 10.3 and its relation to H1 from the Wikiwing. See if you can apply it:

"Making do, getting by – maybe wanting to get on regardless of readiness or capacity to do so. The military type isn’t fit to act as a great leader. He only sees with one eye, doesn’t see the whole picture. (Can refer to someone who wants to be in charge although they are incapable of seeing something very important.) But to deal with tigers you need perfect vision and balance.

10 zhi Hexagram 1, Treading with Creative Force. May be impelled by a huge desire to get it done, restless creative vision. Maybe lacking in receptive openness to what’s out there."


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Even though I go by "ichinglover" in this forum, I think the more I get acquianted with it
the more I hate it.

What am I supposed to do with the answer like that? Yes, you are no good enough, so you'll end up alone?

What is this f***g thing that tells I'm doomed? What am I supposed to do with this info, go kill myself?

I asked Hilary to erase my profile here already, she ignored it...This thing is extremely
negative for me. Hilary, please delete my account! I should stop messing with this thing
 

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Hello iChinglover,
Hex 10.3 - 1
Hex 10 - Lu Treading - is all about conduct, including what the iChing regards as wrong conduct when we make sweeping, negative assumptions about ourselves or our future. Your first question - should I prepare to spend my life alone - whilst innocent enough implies a fear of a negative fate. The I Ching is trying to tell you that this fear is completely ill founded and incorrect. The soldier in line 3 takes charge by wrongly assuming the leaders role - a military man (with a hard uncompromising attitude) thinks he has the knowledge to govern important questions such as the future destiny of the kingdom. The I Ching is telling you that you should not conceive your future in such negative terms. To consider it a possibility is a wrong assumption. Even by asking such an innocent question you are allowing deeply negative fears and possible assumptions to enter your view of life. It is NOT telling you that you are going to spend your life alone. It IS telling you to Conduct your thoughts with care and prevent any unfounded fears from taking over.
The answer to your second question - what is my destiny romantically - is giving you the same advice - don't keep turning away from true nourishment (faith, self belief) by allowing negative fears to creep in. Watch the contents of your thoughts, take care of how you nourish your spirit.
Don't always expect literal answers from the I Ching - if your question implies a lack of self-belief or faith the I Ching will address that issue as a priority because that is the more important issue. Get that right and your true path will unfold as it should. Peter
 

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Even though I go by "ichinglover" in this forum, I think the more I get acquianted with it
the more I hate it.

What am I supposed to do with the answer like that? Yes, you are no good enough, so you'll end up alone?

What is this f***g thing that tells I'm doomed? What am I supposed to do with this info, go kill myself?

I asked Hilary to erase my profile here already, she ignored it...This thing is extremely
negative for me. Hilary, please delete my account! I should stop messing with this thing

27.2.3.5 -> 9 is telling the exact same thing. you prepare to turn away from the very thing that will bring you nourishment.

To remain persevering brings good fortune. ( on line 5)
 

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I asked Hilary to erase my profile here already, she ignored it...
I didn't ignore the request to delete your profile, I replied right away to ask you to specify how I should do this - whether or not to de-link your name from your posts. I'm still waiting for your response.
 
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Hi ICL- Hope you figure this out.

I think what Peter said is very important.
don't keep turning away from true nourishment (faith, self belief) by allowing negative fears to creep in. Watch the contents of your thoughts, take care of how you nourish your spirit.

Watching the content of your thoughts. Or simply going back and reading what you have posted... slowly... and gaining some insight into how you are feeling, could be a great stepping stone to figuring out your answer and helping you grow at the same time. Make sure you allow yourself the time to realize your tone and your focus in the matter.

Peace.
 

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Hi iChinglover,
Hex 10, 3rd yin: Just to try to clarify further. This line does not imply that you are in any way 'not good enough' to find a future partner. The lame man, the one-eyed man, both indicate that your clarity and perception on this issue are clouded and impaired - we are 'lame' when our underlying fears and doubts cause us to doubt our future path. The warrior who tries to act as a ruler represents a wrong view or assumption such as implied by your original question - however innocent or well intentioned. The I Ching takes no prisoners when we indulge incorrect fears. The text for this line has nothing to do with you being inadequate as a person.
This is a yin line in a yang place, hence it is wrongly positioned for an accurate assessment of the situation. The 3rd line of many hexagrams often represents undue restlessness and striving, furthermore it is at the highest point of the trigram Tui, the point where the greatest danger of falling or breaking apart is most likely to occur.
This line has come up in my own readings when my question has implied a wrong underlying assumption or fear. It also comes up when we wrongly assume that we can intervene dramatically to right a wrong or correct someone's behaviour.
Don't give up your work with the I Ching, be patient and allow your understanding to develop step by step. Peter
 

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O got 10.1 -1 when asking if me and my ex husband would be a couple again. I’m understanding that this is a bad assumption
 

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