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[stuart]

I think that the reading suggests you must tread lightly.There may be an indication of quarrels.I think as long as you do not overstep your boundaries you will be alright.I think it will turn out very favourable in the long run.There is an indication of disputes being settled.I would be happy to recieve this reading for a long term relationship.

 

[RindaR]

It looks to me like you currently may be evaluating/re-evaluating your priorities and values and may be working to discard those that come from outside yourself and don't reflect who you really are, or what you truly believe. (?)

I think the new hexagram is urging you to be true to who you are - your deepest and best self, that is. Unless we act from that place, however we see it, we can't really grow or learn from our mistakes. The minute we stop giving ourselves permission to take a chance on making a mistake, we stop growing.

Sometimes couples do this at different times, and this can lead to a lot of push/pull between them as the dynamics of their relationship change.

As you settle into your new more personal values and use them consistently in your decision making and the resultant adjustments in your relationship are made I think the quarrels will subside.

Rinda

 

[RindaR]

Anon - This looks very promising to me.

I think it is telling you to take the talk carefully, and pay attention to each issue as it comes up, (don't skip ones that seem difficult or unimportant or that you feel are already resolved). Growth in your relationship will (needs to) come as a result of a new understanding of each others needs and boundaries, not as a result of superficial changes.

48 is the well, and reminds one to look within and make sure that one's behavior is consistent with what you hear or sense there in your quiet place, your center. That's where you can find the personal resources you need to help you grow, and/or to keep you from over-reacting emotionally.

Rinda

 

[RindaR]

I'd love to have the time to think about this and try to help, anon, but for me this week is a real "push week". Would you mind terribly if I pass the baton to others here who are competent and willing to help? You do have my prayers and best wishes. I may find a few free minutes and need a break today, but that doesn't seem real likely to me now.

Rinda