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Hi all! Hope you are all prospering inside and out.

Sooooo, my first posted question... 11 unchanging... how lovely.
My question was: What does B. think I am doing to him? (as in, my intentions and such)
The story is complex, to say the least. We met, felt huge mutual attraction, both got scared for different reasons, the boy stopped communicating all together and out of the blue moon,
the girl (me) confused but still courageous, met by chance a couple of times after some time, kissed (again :confused:), boy said he likes me and misses me but doesn't have time, girl not buying it, still no communication. That's as short as I could possibly put it, hope it makes sense :D
Could it be that 11 UC is telling me that B. thinks I am in a way saying 'yes' to him? Or that I support him? Or that I am in total peace and don't give a rat's a** about him? Ugggghhhh... relationships and emotions are so confusing to me!!! What do you think? Thank you for your help.
 

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warm, satisfying, you supported so ok and even feel lazy.
 

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warm, satisfying, you supported so ok and even feel lazy.

Thank you! Also, the combination of methods for readings sounds interesting. :) I'm not sure I quite understand the 'lazy' part... as in, I am so nice to him that he feels lazy? :D
 

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Thank you! Also, the combination of methods for readings sounds interesting. :) I'm not sure I quite understand the 'lazy' part... as in, I am so nice to him that he feels lazy? :D
I am sorry for too short words. I mean you support him so much so he feels lazy because he has you.
 

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OMG. I got this a few years ago in a similar situation. Of course, your mileage may vary... There was a guy I knew and saw occasionally when going to see shows (he was a musician). We always had gotten along great and tended to share mild fun flirty banter. Once after I hadn't seen in a couple of years, I went to see him play a gig. He came to see me during the break and we had a warm reunion. He was obviously very happy to see me, and we talked nonstop until he got back on stage, and again at the end of the show. The next day we exchanged several messages on Facebook and he invited me come and see him before the show that night. I did, and once alone the attraction between us was pretty overwhelming. We mostly talked, pretty personal stuff, but at the end we started kissing and it was incredible. He said: Where were you for the past two years? The thing is, him and his fiancee had recently broken up, and they had stuff to work out. I was leaving for a vacation a couple of days later, we agreed to meet on my return. While on vacation I asked the Yi about the nature of our relationship and got 11 unchanging. I was all kinds of excited about that! So wrong! While I was on vacation I did not contact him, but thought about him often, and it actually made me very hopeful for the future and fueled one of my happiest vacations ever (I was on a camping/hiking road-trip by myself). Then I realized he had removed me as a friend on Facebook. When I got back I called him but he was driving and said he would call me back. He didn't. A few weeks later I found out that he had actually gotten married via common friends. Then I called him up and we did talk, and he said that after we had spent time together, he and his girlfriend had decided to get back together and get married despite their hesitation. He did not know how to tell me and had chickened out of even talking to me. This was a few years ago. Now I see him a few times a year in social situations, and he's still obviously attracted to me, although we keep things purely platonic. I briefly dated one of his friends, and he got all pissed off when his friend didn't want to pursue the relationship with me, saying he was blind and didn't know how lucky he was. So I think 11 unchanging meant yes there is strong energy between you, but getting that at a time when you are not currently in relationship might really means that things are going to stay as they are and not change. Great but unfulfilled potential.
 

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OMG. I got this a few years ago in a similar situation. Of course, your mileage may vary... There was a guy I knew and saw occasionally when going to see shows (he was a musician). We always had gotten along great and tended to share mild fun flirty banter. Once after I hadn't seen in a couple of years, I went to see him play a gig. He came to see me during the break and we had a warm reunion. He was obviously very happy to see me, and we talked nonstop until he got back on stage, and again at the end of the show. The next day we exchanged several messages on Facebook and he invited me come and see him before the show that night. I did, and once alone the attraction between us was pretty overwhelming. We mostly talked, pretty personal stuff, but at the end we started kissing and it was incredible. He said: Where were you for the past two years? The thing is, him and his fiancee had recently broken up, and they had stuff to work out. I was leaving for a vacation a couple of days later, we agreed to meet on my return. While on vacation I asked the Yi about the nature of our relationship and got 11 unchanging. I was all kinds of excited about that! So wrong! While I was on vacation I did not contact him, but thought about him often, and it actually made me very hopeful for the future and fueled one of my happiest vacations ever (I was on a camping/hiking road-trip by myself). Then I realized he had removed me as a friend on Facebook. When I got back I called him but he was driving and said he would call me back. He didn't. A few weeks later I found out that he had actually gotten married via common friends. Then I called him up and we did talk, and he said that after we had spent time together, he and his girlfriend had decided to get back together and get married despite their hesitation. He did not know how to tell me and had chickened out of even talking to me. This was a few years ago. Now I see him a few times a year in social situations, and he's still obviously attracted to me, although we keep things purely platonic. I briefly dated one of his friends, and he got all pissed off when his friend didn't want to pursue the relationship with me, saying he was blind and didn't know how lucky he was. So I think 11 unchanging meant yes there is strong energy between you, but getting that at a time when you are not currently in relationship might really means that things are going to stay as they are and not change. Great but unfulfilled potential.

Thank you both. I appreciate your time and willingness to help. You both might be right and perhaps I need to relax, cool down and hopefully move on, forgive and forget. Easier said than done, but anything is possible if one has the courage to see it realistically - and I think I've got the courage. :) So nice to get replies. Thanx again!!
 

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