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In any case inner work always yields external results.
Do you have that view for 46.1 to 11 and 11 inch. or about all responses?
If in no other way but to gain an objective overview (19) of that relation or particular dynamic within it. If our own position is 'on course', then acquiring better understanding outside ourselves or including ourselves can be very helpful.Maybe for relationships the only thing one can do is to work from it's own side of it.
The thing is that at the same time the responses are coherent with a time of "possible" reborn of the relationship. Of course my own reborn has to be done too for things to advance.
So wondering if I can read it both ways, external and internal…
Also, questions 2 and 3 were "what do I have to know…" What do you think about those questions and answers?
2. What do I have to know about this relationship? --> 3 unchanging (Initial Difficulty/Sprout)
3. What do I have to know about her and me? --> 8 unchanging (Holding together)
sooo thanks for all that wise help, I really appreciate it.
I understood about 11 the first go and though about what you said now.
And completely agree (and apply here) about the knot noted in h3
And keeping myself together, cohesionate, individuate is the Work, no doubt.
And no doubt that working that way oneself makes external relationships happen and work.
Thanks a million again
1. How can it be saved? 24.1.5 to 8. Basically these two changing lines point at two conditions: it was not too late to save it when you asked Iching this question, as long as you return back to communication (as you mentioned it was cold and distant). And if you truly have some higher goal (relationship mending) - return is auspicious. Wing interprets it as : " You are aware of the need for a new beginning and have the courage to make the change. By observing your faults with objectivity and resolution at this time you will gain the strength of character necessary to overcome them" (it suggests some correct and critical self-examination and points to some mistakes done before in the situation).
Feel I should add, in regard to the intercourse within 11, as below, so above. Heaven below moves upward, earth gravitates downward, and the two become one.
In the same regard, if she were to apply these same principles we're talking about, such as keeping it together, that in turn would keep her together with you. And if you both did that, it would lead to 11.
h3 is untangling the knot. You must first separate before you can unite. But of course you can't control what she does, only what you do. Still, it's nice when two work it out this way.
Other than the number of syllables, that sounds almost like a koan. 3 is being in the dark, or hopefully just emerging from the dark; like labor pains and morning sickness after 1 and 2 have fruitful intercourse. The new life is not yet fully developed, and help comes in many forms for protection and nourishment. Or with a seedling: the rain threatens to drown or wash it away, sun threatens to dry it out, and big feet threaten to step on it. Chaotic and uncertain. But the inner will strives to live and form and grow.I'm starting to understand hexagram 3 unchanging but there's still a lot in the dark…
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