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what was my lesson from being with x?
12.2.6 to 47
Lot more going in certain (quantum) quality of a connection which does not lend/limit itself to a simple move on solution.I see 12.2 as describing those times when we pretend to be interested but really aren't. Sometimes this is necessary - like when a mother says, "Oh my goodness you ate all your oatmeal! What a big boy you are!!"- but in a relationship such feigned enthusiasm is a sign stagnation is setting in.
So I think the IC is telling you that you or your partner acted interested long after the thrill was gone and ultimately there just wasn't any real enthusiasm to keep the connection alive. If there is a "lesson" to this perhaps it would be to recognize when you are bored and make changes before you're bored to death. Or perhaps the lesson is that when it's over it's over and don't hold on - move on.
There is nothing wrong with voicing your frustration if you are sincere in achieving a meeting of the minds. Simply being critical can only lead to further obstruction. The sense of loss in losing this connection may be what it takes to reveal its importance to you.
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London.
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United Kingdom
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